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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Family Sep 04 2009, 09:59 AM

As it is my family is well lets say messed up. There's a hell of a lot of domestic problems in the past and their starting to come back again with my parents arguing and my brother and his ex fighting (they had a kid together so they both kind of live here on and off). Last time it got like this social services got involved and tried to take me away so I'm kind of worried for my parents safety. It's all over my dads mother Gaynor, she caused a lot of trouble in the past including having my parents kidnapped to try and break them apart whilst my mum was pregnant with my brother, she's never liked my mum. Their at each others throats most of the time and I don't want things getting physical again but I don't know what to say or do. When I'm with them separately they bitch about each other and I just don't want to hear it (and I've told them so).... Any advice??

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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2168

Sep 04 2009, 01:48 PM

I wish I could say something to help but I dont know. I'm sorry. =\ If it was me I'd probably try to stay away from them, but yeah I don't know. >.<

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Sep 04 2009, 02:25 PM

I might move out with a friend to Weymouth (UK) soon I dunno if I should leave everything behind....

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Vybz
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Sep 04 2009, 06:10 PM

this is some really heavy stuff.. wow, running away from something will never solve the whole problem, i mean.. they are still your family... but still it does not seem they are making life any better for you i will pray for you and your family... It is very unfortunate that this is occurring though, i must say, sounds very dramatic.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
Posts: 1545

Sep 05 2009, 03:39 AM

I think I could really do with the break from my life if not move away with Steely =/ It seems to be getting better my nans said she never wants anything to do with us ever again so thats sorted I guess (Y) Still feel siddelined and depressed though and paranoid y dad's gonna spot my wrist....

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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2168

Sep 05 2009, 02:33 PM

Eugh this is really hard for me to say this without saying too much about me but... I left my family behind and I don't regret it. But my situation might have been different? I dunno. Running away from things wont solve the problem but sometimes it's better to leave and move on. I guess like if you leave you can always come back I dunno.. like a 2nd chance or something.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Sep 06 2009, 07:06 AM

Leave everything regret nothing xx

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LipsOfDeceit
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Sep 06 2009, 07:09 AM

yep. life's too short for regrets.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Sep 06 2009, 07:35 AM

Why's mine full of them then lol

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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2168

Sep 06 2009, 07:53 AM

Yeah I know the feeling haha but yeah you just gotta try.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Sep 06 2009, 08:00 AM

and try and try and try an............. lol

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Sep 06 2009, 01:46 PM

I think a new location and new people would do you good to be honest.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
Posts: 1545

Sep 07 2009, 08:00 AM

thanks Matt, I really appreciate your input as a great friend x

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Pagan
Posts: 605

Sep 08 2009, 06:10 AM

maybe movin would be good for you,like my mom and my stepdad used to always bitch about eachother and still do now they broke up!!! but yea maybe movin would be the right thing to do a get your head ingear and then decied if you want to go back to what you gave up,it will be a hard decision,

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XxxcuteemoxxX
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Sep 26 2009, 08:15 AM

hun that is a lot 2 handle.. omg.. i dont knw wat i wld do in that situation but if u do move away it might be good start a new that wat im doing nxt yr when i go over to the uk... though i dont hav the family probs well not that much anyway.. i wish i cld say and do more.. but i am here if u ever wana talk abt it or anything else... sry if this is to forward 2 u... im jst good at giving other ppl help and advice but can never seem to help myself really oops.. :) but if u cant talk 2 them then get out but only if u are sure... cus it is a big move and can change a lot of things for u and the relationship u hav with them... but really it is all up 2 u.. nd wat ever u descied im sure will be the right chose.. xxx

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