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Why was I chosen to be the victim. I am walking on earth dead because you chose me!!!!!!!!! My black tears will never go away! when I look at myself, I see the scars of you hurting me! Why. Was I CHOSEN?? MY BlaCk TEARS will never go away. Black Tears, by Zoee Hart (ZoeeZippper)

What is Emo - Introduction to the Emo Scene Community

Emo Scene Intro | Emo Music | Emo Fashion & Style | Emo Lifestyle & Culture | Scene Kids

EMO means "emotional"...

Emo is a slang term known to be short for emotional, but that doesn't make much sense really. If you claim "emo" were to mean "emotional" it then becomes an all encompassing word. It becomes extremely vague and it has no limit as to what it can describe. Emo when wrongfully used to mean "emotional" describes every living thing, every song, every word, every breath, every statement.

EMO is a subculture...

The term emo is used to describe a subculture which has evolved dramatically over time so the emo of yesterday and today will be discussed.

Emo of yesterday...

Emo was created as a shortened term to describe a specific thing, in this case "emotive hardcore" developed out of the D.C. punk scene in the 80s. In its original incarnation, emo was short for emocore, or emotional-hardcore. The name was applied to hardcore punk rock bands who distinguished themselves from their peers by adding an emotional element to their music. Themes of sadness, love and angst were dealt with in their lyrics. The music was also characterised by particularly dramatic vocals which left the audience in an emotionally charged state, crying or screaming. Real Emo was manly and hard. It was fast and thrashy sung in a way that wasn't pretencious and whiney. This genre is still alive today, although very obscure and unknown to most.

The history of emo is somewhat less ambiguous than its current meaning which is detailed next.

Emo of today...

Emo Girl, Emo Rangers

Emo Guy

The emo culture continued to develop through the 90's and into the new millennium really kicking off around 2003 and reaching the height of its popularity to date. The word has been adopted by a whole generation of teenage music lovers for whom a melodramatic attitude and style of dress is just as important as musical taste. It's now seen as one of the more consumer-driven subcultures, and one of the most brand-obsessed.

Initially defined as a genre of music, nowadays the cultural phenomenon that is Emo is much more than that encompassing its own set of fashion, style, behavior, and perspectives on life within the definition. The music is also significantly different to what was once classed as emo. These changes/evolution obviously are the subject of debate and anger "yesterdays true" emos. At the end of the day its just a word that has horned its way into popular usage while shedding many of the qualities that originally defined it.

Punk which can be described as Emo's predecessor also evolved to encompass a diversified set of lifestyle suggestions above and beyond the kind of music, including certain behaviors, fashion imperatives and identity traits which are indicative of an emerging new culture. Emo still has its roots firmly planted in music with "emotion" is at its core though.

The behaviors, attitudes, and values expressed through the music involve emotionally turbulent themes often associated with adolescence such as despair, nostalgia, heartbreak, hope, and self-loathing. The various and sometimes conflicting social practices associated with Emo subculture contain valuable insights into what it means to be an adolescent today. For many youth, Emo subculture facilitates identity formation, social interactions and emotional involvement. It is a place where many adolescents share their experiences about the world and express their feelings about life through music.

Emo Music [read more]

By the millennium arguably "emo" bands were garnering regular rotation on MTV, Kerrang, etc and radio stations nationwide. These days, emo (inc. screamo, etc) music has been popularised and sent into the mainstream through bands like Dashboard Confessional, Taking Back Sunday, Fall Out Boy, MCR, Aiden, Atreyu, Hawthorne Heights, Silverstein, Funeral For A Friend, etc...(see emo bands)

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Emo Fashion [read more]

Pretty Emo Girl

Emo Guy - Sonny Moore

Emo Girl - Blonde

Emo Guy Boy - White Hoody

Emo Scene Girl

Probably nothing characterises the Emo look more than the Emo hairstyle - long fringe (bangs) brushed to one side of the face or over one or both eyes, dyed black (or other colors), straightened and layered... Spikes are occasionally accentuated at certain angles of the hair.

Emo clothing is characteristed by skinny jeans (usually black), tight band or vintage looking t-shirts or zip- hoodies, studded belts, converse or skate shoes, black nail polish and eye liner on both genders. Black thick-rimmed glasses are another popular feature.

Today's emo fashion derives its influence from the gothic subculture as well as from punk.

Emo Lifestyle [read more]

When referring to a person's personality and attitude, most definitions of emo include a number of the following terms: shy, quiet, mysterious, introvert, angst ridden and sensitive often identified by his/her music and fashion. (generalising here). Artist talent is known to be associated with the emo culture along with a degree of sophistication and depth. Emos can feel they are misunderstood by society.

Emo's like to go to gigs, write poetry (of the romantic and morbid kind), gather on online communities such as soEmo.co.uk, Myspace, etc. They are like any normal person really!

Self-harm is wrongly associated with the emo culture and the media has played a large part in this describing the emo scene as dangerous for example!

Confusion and Criticism

The term's definition is still the subject of debate, with some question as to whether it can even be defined. There is no one definition of emo, nowadays it is seemed to describe anything that's a little bit different from the social 'norms' if you will.

Many other music-centered cultural movements are difficult to define. Meanings evolve, replicate, and recombine so that Emo, which started as a somewhat "agreed-upon" collective subculture, has become a highly contested set of meanings and collective practices. "Emo" will just get harder and harder to define as time goes on...You can get into a hundred pointless debates about the definition and origin of emo.

In the years since emo music's rise in popularity, it has attracted criticism, often severe.

Society sometimes considers emos as failures; they are not strong enough to hide their emotions, they're sensitive, shy, introverted, and often quiet. The outward expression of feelings makes them a target for ridicule. Usually, Emo kids like to express their feelings writing poems about their problems with depression, confusion, and anger; all because the world fails to understand them.

Emo has been characterised as a fad that will be discarded and forgotten in the near future. Critics cast the emo music as lacking any artistic merit and/or musical skill, the emo fashion as embarrassing and the emo people as imagining or pretending that they lead harsh, painful lives when they actually live in comfortable, middle- to upper-class homes.

The ones who are emo not because they feel it, but because they like to be trendy are named 'posers'. Apparently a big percent of the current emo subculture is formed by posers.

The emo subculture is accused that it is celebrating self-harm. I think you'll agree this is pretty stupid though! A lot of the pathethic anti-emo quotes shown below link emo to self harm:

"It's like the Emo culture has taken Punk and sprayed it with girly deoderant."
"I'm so Emo, even surgeons are impressed with my skills with a blade."
"I'm so emo, its a lucky day if I get a papercut."
"I'm so emo, i'm changing my name to Gillette."
"I wish my lawn were emo...then it would cut itself."
"I'm so emo, i attempted to drown myself... in my own tears."
"Im so emo, id cut my wrists and hope to die with tears of blood running from my eye."

MCR (My Chemical Romance) / Emo Fans even staged a protest against The Daily Mail's false "suicide cult" claims in London, UK


The themes underpinning the Emo revolution will never go away. They will always be prominant feature of mainstream youth culture. Emo, as a catch-all phrase, will eventually phase out and be replaced by a new word-of-the-day befitting the emotional character of the times.

The term "scene" has become popular since the emo subculture kicked off. Scene kids or scenesters I believe are more about the style and looking like an emo without the personality of it all. In other words, scene kids are the ones that dress emo, but only because it's a trend or you could say Scene is Emo without the emotion. The term is subject to a significant debate like emo though.

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gtnhffaliep Mar 19 2020, 11:36 AM
Hello. And Bye. Gallaaliep
soEmo.co.uk Feb 05 2020, 08:38 AM
We will be here forever :P
xX o ~ Gem ~ o Xx <3 Feb 04 2020, 07:23 PM
omg! i cant believe this site exists and other ppl remember that time too! memories! nostalgia! <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
Sabina Apr 27 2019, 10:20 PM
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EmoGirl04 Oct 02 2018, 06:51 PM
I love this website, it gives me something to do and it’s really fun. Where I’m from not a lot of emos show up. I just like the idea that I can finally talk to some people that I can relate to. Not a lot of people like what I like so I’m really glad I found this place...
JzEmoxitha666 Nov 15 2017, 06:48 PM
Lol I am So Emo and Scene I love who I like to be no matter what if my parent's like it or don't like it I stand up for it for who I really am is Emo XD
Alex Sep 25 2017, 05:02 PM
My sister needs to read this...she calls emo people wannabe freaks who have no life and she doesn't get that that's not emo.
Jessica Sep 10 2017, 06:34 AM
Its stupid that emos arent accepted anymore, but it is great that this website understands whatit means to be emo
emo_girlvamp May 06 2017, 01:47 PM
I do get a lot of hate for being emo, but it's kind of like I was born this way. I know it's not popular anymore and people tell me to go kill myself or cut my wrists and stuff and I have no friends, but honestly, I'm proud of it. I do write good poetry and songs and stuff, and so if that's what comes out of being an emotional person then I won't complain.
Aaaah Apr 08 2017, 01:43 AM
I miss being an emo kid. These days all you see are cringe compilations of them made by grown ass men who get some satisfaction making fun of teenagers.. Fucking disgusting. The height of it, imo, seemed to be about 2007 or moreso 2008? It's not too hard to recall. I would have been thirteen. It feels good to have something to belong to. It was a harmless subculture. I made all my best lifelong friends through it and that, in turn, made me a functional person. But that's a different story. This is one of the only things I look through for nostalgia. Peace
Felix uWu Mar 15 2017, 03:19 PM
Sup guys.
laila Feb 06 2017, 08:49 PM
theres no other emos in my entire city :(
IDreamAboutDeath Jan 04 2017, 01:52 PM
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soEmo.co.uk Nov 07 2016, 10:36 PM
Glad the site has been helpful for you =]
scenekitten:3 Nov 07 2016, 08:04 PM
that awkward moment when youre doing your sociology presentation on emo culture and this website gives you everything you need
ss g3t r3kt Aug 26 2016, 09:28 PM
i just want to let anyone still on this site to know that its 2016, its time to move on
Jonny Jul 19 2016, 07:59 AM
so amazing ,like love-sites.com ,wow,I like it so much.
Long John Jun 07 2016, 12:33 PM
Im so emo, I died on the inside before i was born.
Hailey Pease Mar 26 2016, 04:05 PM
I'm emo and I love bands!!
Alex Carrasco Mar 19 2016, 02:05 PM
Wow, you hit on the head, I totally feel you, I'm 28 now, and have lived through the whole scene, originally a block kid, first generation, worked the Hot Topic scene, tried to identify myself, cause I knew it wasn't a fade, evolved to screamo music, which is pretty much the same thing, and now, I still rock the hair a bit, but more composed.

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