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joyye
Posts: 28
pregnant Sep 11 2010, 09:27 AM
my chum shes pregnant. she dont want to tell her parents cuz they will probably make her abort the baby and she really dont want to do it. 13 is a pretty young age to be a mum. her bf dont know yet she dont want to tell his but she have too its his baby aswell shes too scared to tell him cuz she thinks he may leave her . im like the only person that knows about it. she asked me what to do and i dont know what to tell her. she really needs help

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Emo Pictures - ThE_UnforgivnUnloved
ThE_UnforgivnUnloved
Posts: 32
Sep 11 2010, 09:45 PM
wow 13 is a scary age to be pregnant she should look at her options here i mean shes going to have to tell her parents evntually if i was in her postion i would tell my parents straight away because it will benefit her in the long term to tell her parents now dont make her leave it till really late. Yes her parents are going to freak out but after they get past that they will get into action because there is going to be descion making. If she was to get abortion so no 1 was to find out, because shes under age she would probably have to get her parents permission anyways. My point is she should really have her parents knowing before anything is decided. If i was her i wouldnt want to get an abortion i dont agree with that at all but then she is going to have problems raising a child at her age so i would have the baby then give the baby away to a couple that cant have a kid by themselves like off that movie 'Juno' if you havnt watched that movie i recomend get together with your friend and watch the movie its a good movie plus may give you an idea or too. hope what ive said helps (use protection) :)
joyye
Posts: 28
Sep 12 2010, 12:58 AM
yeah she want to keep the baby and take care of it thanks for the reply
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Sep 12 2010, 01:19 PM
Well just let us know how she gets on. I wish her all the best.
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Sep 13 2010, 02:51 PM
You don't need parents permission to get an abortion... but i have heard that the emotional side effects can last forever... as for her being 13 and raising the baby you might want to talk her out of that one... tell her that she isn't "mature" enough to raise the baby, tell her to think about how little she will be able to give the child because of the fact that she is so young... seriously get her to concider adoption
joyye
Posts: 28
Sep 14 2010, 08:15 AM
i've told her that adoption is not that bad but she said that she would never do that... i will try to do my best to help her and her bf said he will try to help her aswell just like her mum her dad dont know yet
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Sep 17 2010, 02:23 PM
okay then well i don't really have any advice for that other than the fact that they are going to find out eventually so she might as well tell them
Emo Pictures - Pagan
Pagan
Posts: 605
Oct 18 2010, 01:58 AM
my mother had her first kid my oldaer sister at 13 and tbh she hasn done to badly with us lot, thing is shes gotta be tough. xx
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Oct 18 2010, 01:21 PM
Well done to her!!

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