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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Personal preference ? Feb 27 2011, 05:38 AM
Some people like being in a realationship others like being single. So whats your personal preference and why ?

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RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 06 2011, 09:12 AM
^ yehhh I hate being single when you go through rough times makes it all a bit harder
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Mar 06 2011, 09:26 AM
^Very true. Another thing that is tough is actually deciding if someone is right for you. I'm sure we all enter relationships with some doubts, but sometimes they never go away...
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 09 2011, 02:47 AM
^ very true I guess its all a bit like trial and error really even though it hurts when you find that right someone the pain you went through doesnt matter anymore.
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XxXSouuXxX
Posts: 85
Mar 09 2011, 09:37 AM
I think I prefer to be single. I need independence & even if being in a relationship is pleasant sometimes ,I don't like this feeling to be "indebted" to someone...
heartkiller
Posts: 45
Mar 13 2011, 07:52 AM
In a relationship- I love being able to go home at the weekend, being able to put on a dvd, my feet up, have a pizza and a drink and somebody cuddling up to me =)
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Mar 13 2011, 10:54 AM
Whoever I am in a relationship with is a good friend as well so that's another reason I say relationship.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 13 2011, 11:11 AM
^ yehh I dont get people who are in a realationship and are not good friends seems odd and 9/10 they dont work
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SkyeSKULLFACE
Posts: 27
Mar 15 2011, 11:48 AM
Both are good in their own ways. In a relationship, you have companionship and someone to talk to, spend time with, enjoy the little and big things life throws at you, together. But being single, there aren't any constraints, no other opinions to consider other than your own. You could up and move to Vegas if you wanted. Lol. Personally, I prefer the security and happiness found in a serious relationship. You just have to find the right person to share yourself with.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 15 2011, 12:05 PM
^yehh good and bad on both sides and it really just depends on what kind of person you are. I've been single for quite a while now even though im not 'old' it would be nice to be with someone and have fun just muck around and have a laugh i LOVE having a realtionship where you can just laugh and be an idiot and your partner still finds it funny.
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Lollirot
Posts: 63
Mar 15 2011, 12:16 PM
I enjoy both, to some extent. Being with someone you care about and love dearly can be such a wonderful thing especially when there is nothing standing in between you and the person your with. Being single, however, reassures you that you don't have to worry about the struggles that you have to face in order to be with that persson if the relationship is difficult. It's hard to be fully engaged in a relationship when one is so doubtful and paranoid about what may happen in the future or what's happening at that moment, you know? In other words, being single gives you that sense of security and protection from getting hurt if you are in a difficult relationship. A relationship, depending on how it is, gives you that sense of happiness and affection that being single can really never give you. It's a win/lose situation, in all seriousness, haha. I will admit that I love being able to have someone who is just loving you for you. It's a wonderful feeling, haha. Almost crazy.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 15 2011, 12:26 PM
^ YES hahah :] I tend to be very paranoid in realationships because of past boyfriends cheating and treating me like a doormat :/ But i guess if you find a good guy they will stick with you and prove that they love you for you. There are difficulties in realationships too though i mean some people are very touchy feely hugs kisses e.c.t where as i dont like being touched very much ( long story ) but i guess you justt gotta be a bit like trial and error until you find him or her
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Lollirot
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Mar 15 2011, 12:49 PM
Haha, you just have to be patient and hope that someone good will come around (:
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Mar 15 2011, 04:45 PM
It's true that Mr or Miss perfect might just find come along, but everyone has to make a little bit of effort really..
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Lollirot
Posts: 63
Mar 15 2011, 04:55 PM
It's true! Just sitting around and doing nothing will get you nowhere!
OnyxAngel
Posts: 833
Mar 15 2011, 06:44 PM
Being single can be tolerable if you have awesome, understanding friends! :D
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Lollirot
Posts: 63
Mar 15 2011, 07:07 PM
^Agreed!
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 16 2011, 02:34 PM
^^ yeh does help my friends are lovely but they all have guys have been together ages and are all over each other... then theres me ! just like yehh ima loner HAIII :]
heartkiller
Posts: 45
Mar 16 2011, 03:27 PM
I know what you mean, back when I was at college my then missus decided to break up with me and went out with my best mate (don't worry I was fine as I mew we wern't working out and it was a mutual split). They have been together ever since (7 years now) and had had a baby boy who I am god father too. I on the other hand have been in and out of so many relationships with women of different subcultures and classes, ages creeds and religions I feel I'm doing the okie kokie of relationships (in, out, in, out), non so far have been for me- main cause of splitting up being my time spent away from home with work or being cheated on, but I still hold out in hope that there is someone out there for me. Riri, your still young yet and although you have a very sensible head on you, keep your hope up and love may sucker punch you before you can tell Cupid to stay away! ^_^
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 17 2011, 02:12 PM
Haha well thanks but still just because im young doesnt mean i miss being loved and loving someone ! I wish cupid would hurry up coz im getting tired of being single :(
heartkiller
Posts: 45
Mar 17 2011, 03:47 PM
Aww :( I'm sure you'll find someone soon *hugs

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