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Voices in my head whisper that I'm okay People all around me tell me I'm so strange I can't tell the difference of the light and the dark Hold me closer dear when I'm falling apart Crazy, by Farewell, My Love

Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

MyLa_WiShEs_YoU_DeAd
Posts: 5
WILL the HEART break ever stop Jun 28 2011, 03:55 AM
okay so i cant stand how whenever i date someone its all oh i promise not to hurt you then next thing i know i'm cryign and replying with this I THOUGHT U PROMISED NOT TO HURT ME U LIAR then next thing i kno nothing gets responded back but I'm sorry soo i cant take a nother heart break or be in another relationship with out knowing i'm gunna get hurt sooner or later any advice or nothing

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FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Jun 28 2011, 11:20 AM
I know it's hard, but you just have to get right back up on the horse after you've fallen off of it. Know what I mean? Very few people have the intention of ever hurting you in the first place. Yes, granted, people shouldn't make promises they can't keep. But people do. And you have to accept that, no matter how tough that is. I feel the same way sometimes, and I even think to myself, "Why even try?" Well, we should becuase we are worth it. Not the pain, but the love. And maybe people don't respond after you reply that because they don't know what to say. Either guilty minds hold their tongue or the fact that they have been accused of their failures. I don't know. I'm a realist, so I'm going to tell you this: We all get hurt, and in every relationship there are fights. There will never be any guarentee that you will never get hurt. You will be hurt sooner or later, it's up to you how you handle it. Even in the 'perfect' relationship you can get hurt. It's not always a deal breaker. Now, I'm not an expert, but... My only advice to you is to dust yourself off, reflect, and be smarter next time.

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