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Emo Pictures - VincentVindicated
VincentVindicated
Posts: 15
What should I do? Dec 14 2011, 01:20 PM
So to make this short and not too personal, I'm in a relationship with an amazing girl. She makes me smile all the time and we almost always have a great time. The only problem, is that, lately some things that she has done in her past have been bothering me a lot. I have a problem dwelling on it, especially if I see something that is a reminder of what hurts... A part of me says that it shouldn't matter how bad her past is, we love eachother now and that's all that should matter. But, another part of me wonders if I would be happier with someone that hasn't experienced as much in their past and in return; I wouldn't be bothered. What is your opinions on the outside looking in?

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Emo Pictures - JCGenocideofNormal
JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266
Dec 14 2011, 01:30 PM
Stay with her, don't ruin a great relationship because of some shit.
Emo Pictures - ManaRawr
ManaRawr
Posts: 95
Dec 14 2011, 01:51 PM
Everyone's got things in their past that they're not proud of or aren't that great, but those are the things that make us the people we are today. The past should never ruin the present. Its called the past for a reason, because those times have passed. So enjoy the present with her, and look forward to the future with her :)
Emo Pictures - VincentVindicated
VincentVindicated
Posts: 15
Dec 14 2011, 02:00 PM
Thanks guys. I pretty much knew this already, I just needed to hear it from someone.
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18332
Dec 14 2011, 05:00 PM
Yea if it's in the past try and not let it bother you and just enjoy the moment. However if you are having big issues with her at the moment then talk about it and decide if it's worth continuing the relationship..

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