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Ok not to sound to rude but someone thaat many years older than u, let's stay with the 5 years even if that person liked u back, most likely they would only want one thing. Think about it what would an 17 or 18 year old want with a 13 year old? Basically one thing, I had to learn that the hard way myself. When I was a freshmen I dated a senior who was almost 19, seemed like the sweetest guy who would do no harm nd he turned out to be the biggest asshole on the down low. Not every guys like this but most older guys who go for younger girls ussualy do just want one thing. The second case that u said u liked both but they have girlfriends, I know it sucks to like someone who's in a relationship, its happend to me twice before nd rejection isn't an easy thing to handle. Its fine to still have those feelings but I think u should have a limit maybe like 2 years older nd find someone who's going to like and want u for u. Don't give in right away either, any boy who truley loves u will wait for u. U might be shaking ur head disagreeing right now, but I speak from experience myself. I'm sure ur a beautiful girl who some single boy out their would love to be with. But u can't rush things, love will eventually find u, if u keep looking or going after it, most of the time ul get hurt. Just giving my advice, u can take it or leave it, but I don't wana see someone make the same mistakes I once did, cuz every girl deserves the best.

5 years older is a bit extreme and they usually want different "things". if possible try to go 4 the one 2 years older than u, girls mature at an average of 2-3 years older than guys so you'd be fine in the emotional department but if hes got a GF. cant help u