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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Intimacy Oct 24 2012, 09:20 AM
Here goes. Well, my boyfriend is bi. Now, I'm the first/only girl he's had strong feelings for. (To the point that he basically assumed he was gay before he met me.) I'm his first girlfriend. I'm his first serious relationship, for that matter. He's my first serious relationship as well. A week before I even knew he liked me, he was asking me questions on sexuality including his own. I told him he could have feelings for a girl, but not be sexually attracted to her. He said he "couldn't see himself 'with' a girl, really." A week later, he asked me out. Now we've barely been going out for two months, but I just don't know how to ask if he likes me 'in-that-way.' Because I'd like to kiss him, y'know? And I want to see how this relationship will pan out after high school. I mean I know he LIKES me, because we're bf and gf, but. I don't know if we're on the same page with intimacy. What makes it more difficult is that he'd be my first kiss. (Lame I know.) Any ideas, tips, advice?

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x_beyondparanormal_x
Posts: 130
Oct 24 2012, 12:57 PM
Not lame The best you can do I think is just ask him :p It might be hard at first Just get up the courage Start a conversation And say "Hey..do you like me on an intimate level?" And pray for the best Or- You could go up to him and say "Wanna fuck?" and see what happens But if it were me, I think I'd go with the first solution. x3 Hope I sorta helped :/
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18332
Oct 24 2012, 03:26 PM
First kisses mmm just try not to plan or think about it too much. If he wants to kiss you I'm sure the moment will come along and he will or vice versa.
FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189
Oct 24 2012, 07:09 PM
well yea if your in a realtionship just ask him nicly! plus he's a guy so he should be fairly casual about it :) just sit and have a talk about it, be polite but dont be afraid to ask the big questions still, just word them more softy, think through wat u wanna say and then say it :) and make sure u tell him where you stand!

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