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Kate
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perception of love Nov 25 2012, 03:05 PM

Is this just me or dose a persons perecption on how they veiw love and relationships change as they grow older ?? because i know personaly mine has change alot ..in the sense of how i veiw them and classify the terms for a start

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Nov 25 2012, 04:24 PM

Difficult to say as love is really hard to define anyway. Plus I could say I loved my mates as well as my girlfriend, but they are quite different kinds of 'love'.

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FlamingBlackSkull
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Nov 25 2012, 05:35 PM

Yeah I agree there are different types of love. My perception of love hasn't changed much, but how one FEELS when in love; my perception on that has definately changed. I can't really explain how, but I know now that the way I thought it would feel is different than it actual does feel. Does that make sense? But I digress. I suppose it has changed, just perhaps not the same way it has changed for you. As it was said, love is hard to define anyways.

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Xolivia-von-sodomyX
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Nov 25 2012, 06:47 PM

i think that its not just age but experiance like i didnt really no what loveing a person was like till i fell in love my self and i didnt really fully get what love for my freinds and family was like untill after experances showed me.

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Kate
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Nov 26 2012, 12:50 AM

yhea i agree that the termonlogy is hard to define and is diffrent for alot of people

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Nov 26 2012, 11:12 AM

Depends which type of "love" but I agree that our views change with experience and age.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Nov 26 2012, 03:24 PM

A very difficult kind of love is one where you love them but they hate you...

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Nov 27 2012, 10:21 AM

Know it all too well

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Kate
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Nov 28 2012, 02:34 PM

yhea ... or you love someone but are to shy to tell them

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Nov 28 2012, 04:02 PM

That one too. Love is a very complex emotion.

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Kate
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Nov 29 2012, 01:20 AM

Couldn't agree more with that statement ... Hence it sits close to hate and jealousy

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Nov 29 2012, 11:24 AM

How about loving multiple people... that's another issue.

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xXxChrisJWxXx
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Nov 29 2012, 02:47 PM

Loving more than one person Unrequited love Being too shy to say anything Being cheated on Not knowing which type of love people mean Problems I think we have all faced here...

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Kate
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Nov 30 2012, 12:21 PM

yhea i think alot of people have experianced atleast 1 of those... loving more than 1 person is a tricky situation as you don't want to hurt peoples feelings

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Dec 04 2012, 01:02 PM

^Yep but you always end up hurting someone. E.g. I don't just go for the first girl I meet. I make sure I get to know a few and whoever I 'click' with the best I try and go for. Some will moan at me for that, but I don't care it's the best way to do things even if you can hurt some people in the process. However I really do not like hurting anyone because I am an incredibly caring person. Ok I will shutup now :D

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Kate
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Dec 04 2012, 02:14 PM

that plan sounds alot like what i do except sadly my feelings in some cases end up getting a tad brusied as well ...

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