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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

BlackestOfNight
Posts: 24
too many girls Dec 08 2012, 02:07 AM
hay so im a bit upset cuz i have too many girls running after me well not like a croud or anything but i cant make a decision on any of them one really likes me and wants to take my v at the end of the year but is scared of commitment one likes me really likes me and i would feel like a dick saying no to her one is an old friend but i dont like her i that way she would also be heartbroken if i said no D: not good HELP!!!

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FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
Dec 08 2012, 09:19 AM
well sometimes you need to be cruel to be kind so saying no instead of giving them a wrong idea is best.
betty_luvs_ppl2
Posts: 13
Dec 08 2012, 09:58 AM
go with the one u like. put urself before them cause if u let them have to wrong idea them its just gonna make it hader on them in the end. and then where would u be after everthing blows off. my point is sometimes u have to say no to be a good friend.
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Dec 08 2012, 09:59 AM
Well, ok. Let's see. Firstly, from the way you've worded the post, it seems you are uninterested in all of them. The last girl, you'll have to say no. It'd be an even more of a dick move to say yes to her than to say no if you really don't like her. The second girl: if you don't want to be with her, don't. And the first girl doesn't want a commitment, so if there's no foundation for a relationship, I'd say no to her too. But that's just me. You have to stop worrying how they feel and do whats best or you, because if you don't, you'll be unhappy with them and that's doing a disservice to them.
nezzyneon
Posts: 896
Dec 08 2012, 10:01 AM
agreed with FiFi....i know its a hard situation but this is something you will have to figure out by yourself...i mean its a huge deal...1 guy and 2 girls is really hard but, take a while to think about which one you care for the most and then go from there...at some point, 1 girl will get hurt, but we all have to deal with that. Just don't hurt her in a way that it starts to get awkward...
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18332
Dec 09 2012, 09:41 AM
Been in this situation and I just went for the one I got on best with and did have to hurt a few girls in the process. That's life you cannot please everyone and things generally work out for the best for everyone in time anyway.

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