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im losing the people i love Feb 03 2014, 05:36 AM
a week ago I had everything I ever wanted but now im not so sure... my boyfriend (who I love more than anything) hasn't texted me for 5 days and tbh I don't even think he really loves me cos we were broken up for a while and my friend George said he didn't like me he was just going out with me cos he didn't want to hurt my feelings. the next bit makes me feel sick, causes me sleepless nights and all that... I am kinda cheating on him, im flirting with this other dude. I cant help it, I really love my boyfriend but when he doesn't talk to me I just feel like hes gonna break up with me tomorrow or something and the other dudes always there... I hate myself for what im doing. HELP!!!!

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Xeno
Posts: 112
Feb 03 2014, 09:25 AM
No probs, normally the peak in any couples relationship is within the first four months or so. Anything after that, they start to lose interest unless you make a real good effort to keep a relationship strong. They normally don't realize what they have until it's gone. Girls are more emotional during initial conflicts and therefore feel more. Guys take time for them to feel the pain of losing someone you once spent every single hour in the day with. So I guess what I'm saying is break up with him, let him feel the pain then either he will go back to you or you go back to him (you must go back within a month). This tactic will work exceptionally well if you do happen to get back together as the relationship will be spiced back up to the same feeling as within the first four months of the first relationship. (The reason he's not texting you back is probably not because he doesn't love you, it's just that you don't interest/excite him anymore. You gotta keep away from routines to keep relationships strong and healthy)

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