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hello, my name is jesskya aka Jalaiya Jay. i live in the USA, Missouri i have been in a relationship for 4 yrs now with an amazing man named Thomas Tingaling whom lives in Hong Kong. Him and i met on here and i wanted to update a previous post by giving advise. https://www.soemo.co.uk/forums/topic.php?id=2805750 If you have been in a long distance relationship or are in one right now, or maybe you just wonder how the hell some people do it... Well, im here. i want to first start off by saying it is possible. 4years have gone by and we have some how made it. is it hard? yes, it is the hardest thing anyone would go through. i have had to say good bye 5times now and every time has gotten harder. 1week ago he was here and i had to leave him at the air port. The hardest thing is to talk away, the sec you walk around the corner that person wont be there. All you can do is keep your head up and remember the times you shared. you never actually get used to it, it just sticks on you and if your like me you will go into a depression for 48hrs but then all you can do is pick yourself up and get back out there. LIVE! if people want to judge me or anyone for doing something so "stupid" then tell them that they are the ones who arnt capable of being so strong or even know what it is like to struggle or to really love someone. IF you truly love and care for the person you are with then dont give up, PLEASE. Im not trying to chase anyone away from being in a situation like this, im only telling you reality. It is hard. BUT it is worth it. some people arnt so lucky and have to wait a long time to meet but trust me, that moment is well worth it. The moment you see eachother itll be like nothing else in this world exists. A weight will be lifted for a short moment but then at least youll know... youll know they are the one. The first moment i saw him i remember i pulled up to him and i just wanted to cry joyfully because i never realized how tall and how much more perfect he was. I knew at that moment he was the one. Every relationship has there downfalls but you grow TOGETHER and get stronger. I can rant all day about mine but i really want you to keep your heads up and you will soon see the light. He/She may be the one and if you hold on long enough it will be well worth it. i dont even know if anyone will want to read this but thats it. life is hard but when you go through it with someone you love then it all gets better. i hear so many people feeling sorry for me because im sitting alone and they are with there forever well im tired of it. this is only showing how strong of a person i truly can be and same goes to you. DONT LET ANYONE make you think your stupid for doing this because love is love. just dont give up. im here for anyone if they need to vent or help with anything. just message me and maybe i can tell you something.