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xXEMO-DRUMMERXx
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PLEASE TELL ME WHAT SHOULD I DO Feb 10 2010, 10:19 AM

by most of my family, i have been rejected, they say i can trust them, but then i tell them what had happened with my cousins brother-in-law, and they all said that i was lying to get attention, and that if it was true, that i probably deserved it. and now my mom my sister and me cant go to any family things, cause my "family" just starts saying shit...now everyone hates me, and it all started when i told them what happened, and with the whole family fighting, i feel like its my fault, like i shouldnt have said anything. i was 14 at the time, and the guy was 22 and i couldnt do anything about it. i just need to know what i should do. i cant keep living like this knowing that if i wouldnt have said anything, everything would be alright, please help me i really need the advice.

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Nick-Aotmzgin
Posts: 1004

Feb 10 2010, 10:00 PM

>.< sad well i think you shold gather the brother in law and your family or just you and try to go deep and explain to them what happend explain to them about the age issue and tell them you were younge and you were clueless. try to throw all the blame else where age or circumstances etc.. dont be upset or sad just carry on usuall and try to ignore bad thoughs. try to make peace get to a peace... with the family and others.. GL.

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emo_isabella
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Feb 11 2010, 11:38 PM

oh God. i feel you man i swear to God the same thing happened just TODAY.

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Eve_Eve
Posts: 75

Feb 12 2010, 11:50 PM

Family and relatives are such a " pain in the ass"! :@ Well, I keep myself "invincible" by keeping my secrets and distance away from them! I deal with my problems with any of them personally without any other person's "interposing". I try to care less about what they think or say! Hope any of what I said helps...

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Nick-Aotmzgin
Posts: 1004

Feb 13 2010, 11:02 PM

thats why we shut and dont share anything because family is a PRESSURE! not pain but pressure! sometimes EVE i agree with you family is like a bumper sticker hopes to stick around 4 life...NO!

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xXEMO-DRUMMERXx
Posts: 30

Feb 16 2010, 05:32 AM

omg thank you guys :) that makes me feel better about that, a bit atleast, this might sound dumb, but it means alot to me that you guys gave me advice, really it does, cause atleast there are some people that understand how i feel, you know

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