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Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Best friend Jul 14 2010, 03:41 AM
My best friend, the one I said something about me liking a lot but some bitch would kill me if I ever went for him, well anyways he was really upset last night and decided to talk to me about everything that was on his mind. He told me about his ex-girlfriend trouble and how he only dated my friend because his other ex that he was in love with was ignoring him and she reminded him of his ex. then she started to get really busy with cheer and stuff and started to "ignor" him and he got sad again... he told me how hurt his self esteem has been and all this other stuff and we went into a chat room with the bitch I hate but I promised to be nice. Then I stupidly let it slip that I used to cut, then after the bitch left he told me he was having suicidal thoughts, waking up every morning putting a gun in his mouth pulling the trigger just to realize there were no bullets in the gun... and idk its just been bothering me all night/ morning because I love him to death he makes me forget Sam... lol and you know I'm upset about it when I decide to pray about it my grandma went into surgery last friday and i didnt even pray about that soo yeah :/

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Emo Pictures - Vybz
Vybz
Posts: 1466
Jul 14 2010, 04:33 AM
wow.. that's come serious stuff. It's good to pray though it helps because there is a God who listens and acts! :). All you can do for now is pray for him and be there for him. He just needs a friend to be by his side and to help him through the rough patch. Also be good to check on him ever so often to make sure he doesn't do anything crazy... As for the girl you dislike ignore her and do what you can for him. Focus on him because he needs you. He needs someone he can trust. Also it would be good to reassure him of his worth and value. Let him know he's important. Also occasionally let hi know he;s important to you , but be careful not to let your feelings for him be revealed at he wrong time.. as he's emotionally weak at the moment. You have my prayers as well ^^
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 14 2010, 03:19 PM
:) he knows I like him already and i know when im a rebound and i told him how important he is to me and to all, he just can't get over the past he started talking about going back on drugs and i put a frowny face and he was like don't worry i won't and i said some stuff and was like im probally not helping at all am i and he said i was and we actually talk whenever we are on facebook/myspace at the same time but me not having a phone really kind of makes it hard to commenicate... and thanks for keeping him/ me in your prayers :)
Emo Pictures - Vybz
Vybz
Posts: 1466
Jul 14 2010, 07:00 PM
No problem at all, thanks be to God for listening and thanks to Him in advance for acting. I'm sure your friend will come around when the time is right ^^.
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 14 2010, 09:20 PM
lol he seems to be doing MUCH better tonight but his plane leaves tommarrow and he is still debating on whether he wants to come back or not and I am still trying to convince him that if he isn't on the plane that i will hunt him down... then he said something about me being in his bed lol

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