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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Am i doing something wrong ? Dec 20 2010, 02:25 PM
Well basically never been really good at relationships like i hae them but they never las long and they tend to be with older guys maybe thats the reason idk. Anyways i like to be with someone i dont really enjoy being single. My problem is thou hardly any guys want to date me yet... i get loads of guys who want like sex no strings friends with benegits kinda thing :/ ( i dont wanna sound big headed). They all know i wont have sex unless im in a relationship and so on but they still ask and think i'll say yes. I just want a relationship not any sex with no strings friends with benefits. What am i doing wrong ? D: xoxo

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Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Dec 20 2010, 02:48 PM
Learn to dance sexy and then show the guy that as simple as that :] xd just kidding well if u r deep and r interlectuall then it will attract guys as well as eye contact and being hard to get not to hard thou and be mysterious guys totally loves that <3
Croboi
Posts: 35
Dec 20 2010, 05:51 PM
U just gotta wait for right person ta come along. There's no problem with bein single... Cuz friendships r the thyngs tht matter most and r harder ta go away, u kno...
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Vybz
Posts: 1466
Dec 20 2010, 06:33 PM
"what are you doing wrong". keeping bad company maybe... Sometimes guys can be like that.. Older guys and younger ones as well. I agree with the post above... Just wait for the right guy. All of us aren't like that ^^. You're not doing anything wrong really.. You just haven't met the right guy yet. Plus you're young so you have plenty time. Just take everything in stride ^^. As the person above said; focus more on friendship! Boyfriends come boyfriends go but good friendships last forever.
TheDayILeftTheWomb
Posts: 27
Dec 21 2010, 12:48 AM
To be totally honest you arent doing anything wrong, its just the guys who you seem to go for seem to al be the same. i guess you'll have to try someone different or something idk. Bt you arent doing anything wrong, i think its amazing taht you are keeping to your principles and any guy that wants the "no strings attached" stuff is just stupid and isnt worth worrying about. If you wanna talk somemore PM me. :D good luck with your problem!
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Dec 21 2010, 11:06 AM
I'm sure your not doing anything wrong as mentioned already. You just haven't found the right person. It's a fact loads of guys (and girls) your sorta of age just want some fun/sex, etc with no strings attached. However quite a few guys out there will be feeling exactly the same as you. It's never easy finding someone decent. Also when you say older guys how old?
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Dec 21 2010, 11:09 AM
yeh i guess your right guys ^^ and matt about 3 years older 18/19 year olds
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Dec 21 2010, 11:15 AM
Oh that's not much of a gap. Sadly relationships don't get any easier when your older though!
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Dec 21 2010, 11:17 AM
Yehh Im giving up ! the relationships with NICE guys can come find me haha ^^ Screw the lads that want 'no string sex' they probably have more STD's than a prostitute
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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Dec 21 2010, 08:26 PM
"Screw the lads that want 'no string sex' they probably have more STD's than a prostitute" -haha that's riiiiiite in thinking, twinny :'D well yeah i must admit that i have had a std not funny got it from a guy that well slept with many girls >.< well i just say this i am a girl that falls for bad boys >.< it must be something with them being dangerous that attracts me and to turn them good to :'D maybe i should find a good boy.. meeeeeh yeah getting older doesn't make it any easier finding someone.. *sighs* not to many people these days r after a really serious relationship... well i am that kinda person that always has since i was well little wanted to find that guy to be with until u die....have kids... i love kids yay they truly r one of the miracles of life :'D yeah no kid yet lolz..:P well yeah and get married too ...what girls doesnt have their own dream wedding :P i just say this about that.. me and a guy getting married beside a castle ruin in scotland :'D haha xD and no pink on the wedding... i hate pink as a color...:'''D well good for me that me and my ex didn't got engaged on our 1 st year as a couple celebration day lolz :''''D haha :'D anyways he couldn't afford a decent ring anyway because of all the computer stuff he bought.....xD u will find someone one day , twinny or i will help u in a near future <333333
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Dec 31 2010, 10:26 AM
Haha aww i forgot about this ahah ! Thanks twinny ! <3 Well im gonna wait for a nice emo guy so yehh ^^ haha <3
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 01 2011, 06:16 PM
lol good luck finding one... oddly I have the same problem, but mine is more of guys my age think I'm ugly, and the ones that don't are the asses that want friends with benifits... and fyi since in america its illegal for anyone over the age of 18 to be with some one under the age of like 17 but idk i have really no advise for you :/
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 02 2011, 04:07 PM
^ totally sucks but your not ugly so dw :] Hmm dont worry im sticking to my guns gonna have some self respect ^^
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nikkiwest
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Jan 03 2011, 04:07 PM
good job (:
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Jan 04 2011, 07:40 AM
yeah u r not ugly nikki :D <3 and twinny keep up the good work with getting guys from going into ur pants :D<3 x
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 04 2011, 07:40 PM
umm not trying to take the spotlight from Ri-Ri but what about a regular (non-low cut) tee-shirt and skinny jeans comes off as easy and slutty?? lol so far this week I've had two different guys ask to start a no strings attached thing with me, and since I'm the nice little bitch I am and have trouble saying no I was just like Idk and now im kind of starting to wonder what AM i doing that makes me look easy :/ oh then i texted my best friend and he was like lol and never texted anything more >:(
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Jan 04 2011, 09:38 PM
Well I think some guys think of me as slutty just because that I am almost always dressed in kinda sexy clothes :-o when thinking about it maybe I should stop with that for a while and maybe guys will take me more seriously if I do so :-) x
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 04 2011, 09:41 PM
lol but I wear loose tees and skinnys that aren't even that tight, lmfao
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jan 05 2011, 01:22 PM
From a guys point of view if you like the girl her clothes aren't going to make a great difference. I like girls in sexy skirts as well as jeans and a tee...whatever really.
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Jan 05 2011, 01:54 PM
I just say one word : personality ! <3 x
Breezy
Posts: 336
Jan 05 2011, 03:38 PM
same here, it seems guys only want me for sex and nothing else. cept right now i'm with the perfect guy <3 I say just wait and the right guy will show up, or he might even be right under your nose. But yea Suicide is right XD The mysterious thing works pretty damn good (user of the mysterious trick) even though I'm just naturally mysterious.

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