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RiRi-Rawwwrr
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How can i help him ? Jan 18 2011, 08:41 AM
My dad is an alcoholic he has been for about 40 years of his life my dad is 68 yehh he is old ! Well recently well the last 4 years he has been getting ill but has been recovering from it. However now he isnt recovering from illnesses but doesnt want help. He has gangreen in his legs they need to be amputated for him to stay alive but he wont do it. He has to much pride i think but he has me my sister and his grandaughter to think about. His liver is fucked only something stupid like 10% of it is working but he wont have a transplant even though they said he can be put higher up on this list because my sister and myself would pay for the transplant. He has been throwing up all liquids and solids he's dehydrated cant talk properly and cant walk properly. All he can drink now is milk he cant chew anything anymore half his teeth have fallen out where he has fallen over because he has been so drunk. Everyday he goes nextdoor where another alcoholic lives they drink about a few bottles of whiskey together. I actually dont know what to do. He wont go to the doctors he wont go to hospital but he really needs to. Can i force him to go ? My older sister is the next of kin but she isnt his blood daughter but she said i can make decisions and she will sign the papers as she is over 18. Can i force him to go for his own good ?

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Feb 04 2011, 02:22 PM
be strong :) <3 and yeah be single for a while then enjoy it u have ur whole life in front of u to get guys :D be with friends and people that makes u happy <3 x
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 05 2011, 07:15 AM
Have you got many friends?
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 05 2011, 11:25 AM
I wishh no i dont ¬¬
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 06 2011, 08:35 AM
Well I'm sure you have at least one who can be there for you.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 07 2011, 07:36 AM
None e really likes me here and i have trust issues i cant tell just anyone this its killing me
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 07 2011, 01:47 PM
Well you know I try to help as much as I can, but it's not the same as being with you..
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 08 2011, 08:41 AM
I know and thanks matt Update: The hospital is kicking him out coz they cant handle him yehh great im definately not gonna have a dad for much longer !
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 08 2011, 02:45 PM
This topic has really touched me. I wish I could reach out and sort all your problems...
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 09 2011, 01:08 AM
Thats really sweet and thoughtful of you Matt and i cant thank you enough for the support you have given me already but i know you cant do anymore. I guess i have to face the fact that i wont have a dad soon and i'll have to fight for my happiness and i'll have to deal with losing another person out my life... I was hoping 2011 would be my year :[
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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Feb 09 2011, 10:19 AM
well i am here for u too,twinny <3 and u r a strong person ...u have it in u i know that <3 u must be positive and u deserve so much happiness in ur life .. its the people who has it really rough in life , who later in the end becames the strongest.. <3 love u, twinny! us 2 against the world! <3 x
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 09 2011, 01:42 PM
See another person who cares RiRi :]
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 09 2011, 02:08 PM
Yehh but no offence its not gonna help my dad is it :/
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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Feb 10 2011, 09:13 AM
well this topic has touched me too very deeply <3 well i can't do anything to help ur dad .. i sooo wish i could do miracles so that i could make ur dad better <3 well i will try to support u u , twinny <3 and make u more positive <3 and u deserve so much in life... and u must stay strong even thou its hard <3 and well make the most and the best of the time u have left with ur dad.. <3 make him happy and positive too :) Try to say nice things to him and if he has the strenght somedays do activities with him..:) and dont do stupid things to urself too...! dont cut urself.. if u feel really depressed listen to music that u like or yeah write down what u feel on a paper, draw something..etc.. and u have support from surely some people both in real life and on here on soemo <3 and u r: beautiful, smart, funny, crazy(in a good way :P), kind, awesome and so on... u just need to believe more in urself..and u will get through really bad stuff in life i know u will do that! <3 and i will try to be on here as much as i can to support u <3 u r perfect just as u r and u r unique <3 :D xx
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 11 2011, 04:29 PM
"Yehh but no offence its not gonna help my dad is it :/" - true, but I can try help you feel a little better x
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 12 2011, 01:22 AM
Gahh im sorry im such a bitch :/ Blahh i wish he'd hurry up and die or i do this fucking messing up my head >.<
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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Feb 12 2011, 09:36 AM
u r not a bitch <3 i would also be sad if i was in ur situation but u gotta stay strong i know its hard to be that for u but u must be that :) and yeah i hope i can make u feel a little better too :) i will always be there for u <3, twinny <3 u r an amazing girl :] x
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 12 2011, 10:29 AM
Thankyou it just sucks im so angry at the world Times like this i wish i wasnt alive to be bluntly honest ....
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Feb 12 2011, 10:34 AM
Yea, but there will be many times in your life when your happy your alive!!
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 12 2011, 10:38 AM
Pshh really ? I haventy had one of those moments and ive been alive nearly 16 years
RiRi-Rawwwrr
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Feb 13 2011, 01:06 PM
Update: He's at home again even though he shouldnt be He's been given a few weeks at most

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