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haloweenonchristmas
Posts: 92
dating your friends? Feb 27 2011, 12:01 PM
I just got dumped by my boyfriend and I will quote exactly what he said: "Umm I think it was a bad choice to ask u out cuz we were too good of friends please don't be mad and hope we can go back too the way things were" well, sufficed to say, I am mad. My number one rule is to not date your friends. its too awkward. So my question is, am I wrong? should I date friends? it just doesnt feel right. its awkward! ...right? :\grr

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BMTH4LIFE
Posts: 116
Feb 27 2011, 12:49 PM
i dated a friends once... didnt work lol it was awkward when we were together at school but that was just me, i know a few ppl who date there best friends and it works out fine :P
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 27 2011, 12:50 PM
Really depends on the person and their friend personal preference and all that lot
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Opheliac_x
Posts: 178
Feb 27 2011, 12:56 PM
I really depends on you but I think that if things end badly in the relationship then it's a ruined friendship and thing'll never be the same but thats just my opinion from what i've seen.
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Feb 27 2011, 09:37 PM
Friends are the safest option, we know them best. Usually you have to get to know someone and be their friend before you like them and subsequently date them. At least, that's how I do things. But at times it can be awkward, it just depends on the situation. Alas, to each his own.
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lostcause
Posts: 74
Feb 28 2011, 07:01 AM
tricky subject.. only date them if you actually really like them as more then a freind. and dont go from freind to boyfreind overnight like give it time to get to know each other better 1st by doing innocent things like dates e.t.c.... but if you ever cross the intimacy bridge theres no going back :/
Glass_Tears
Posts: 272
Feb 28 2011, 12:03 PM
i agree i guess it depends on who you date
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18332
Mar 03 2011, 01:08 PM
^Exactly. 50/50 situation. I'd date some friends I know and it could work out well or just ruin everything..
Glass_Tears
Posts: 272
Mar 03 2011, 01:53 PM
yeah i've actually tried it. one i broke up with because he was controlling and the other one well.. he was awesome! but he was moving :( so that sucked
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Erikasauur__
Posts: 39
Mar 04 2011, 12:38 AM
Well sometimes it works. I ended up going out with my best guy friend buuuuuut we were on and off and didnt really work. And its true. its 50/50 cause you dont wanna go out with someone you dont know. So youre not wrong but i understand how it could feel awkward after having to had been friends for a while
Glass_Tears
Posts: 272
Mar 04 2011, 11:32 AM
yeah and because we dated and broke up i ended up losing one of my best guy friends :(
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Mar 04 2011, 11:51 AM
^ aww sorry ! I dated some real close guy friends and if anything our realationships are stronger.
Glass_Tears
Posts: 272
Mar 04 2011, 12:41 PM
^ your lucky! I miss the guy friends i dated well i only dated like 3 of them but they were awesome friends they don't even talk to me anymore
LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2168
Mar 04 2011, 04:44 PM
Sometimes best friends become partners for life, and sometimes your better as just friends, depends on the person really

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