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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

Emo Pictures - ManaRawr
ManaRawr
Posts: 95
I could use a little advice maybe... Sep 04 2011, 01:52 PM
It's beginning to bother me that I've only ever had 1 relationship in my entire life. It was two years ago now :/ I don't get where I'm going wrong... I meet new people, I'll talk to pretty much anyone, but no one ever sees me in 'that' way for some reason. I come from a big group of friends, and I must admit it's frustrating watching everyone go in and out of relationships while I'm forever destined to be 'the single one'. Where am I going wrong? How do fix?

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OnyxAngel
Posts: 833
Sep 04 2011, 03:11 PM
Wow, be proud of that! That just shows that you want a GOOD relationship, and you'll only settle for a guy if you're positive that he's right for you. Don't be jealous of people who are in and out of relationships all the time. Because, that's sad. And in the future, they won't want relationships anymore because none of their relationships ever last long :) The best relationships usually come out of NOWHERE and when you're least expecting it. It takes time. And you're beautiful and intelligent. Someone's bound to come your way <3
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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Sep 05 2011, 06:02 AM
Firstly, something that's just a little off-topic - were you in town last Wednesday? I was sitting outside Shakeaway with a friend, looked up and thought I saw you just walking past, but I could only see from the back and didn't wanna shout out just in case it wasn't you D= Anyways... I'm in (almost) the same situation as you, having been single for almost 2 years, having a lot of friends who always seem to be in a relationship, meeting new people but STILL not being able to get into a relationship... and true, it's frustrating, but take a look at your friends who either are in or have been in relationships recently. How many of them regretted the relationship, or are unhappy, or had a nasty break-up etc? And how many of those relationships could you see from the beginning weren't going to work? Like me, you're not going to settle for a relationship if you're not happy with it. And besides... how do you know somebody doesn't like you but is just to scared to say so? :)
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Sep 05 2011, 08:36 AM
^ I'd actually have to agree, I used to be one of those people that had two week relationships, then I realized how stupid it was and stopped dating. Yesterday, the guy that I've liked since the seventh grade (who is also one of my best friends) asked me out... it wasn't out of nowhere but it's one that I know will work out.... You never know what could happen just be patient and the person will come to you... most people that go out looking for love only end up getting hurt.
Emo Pictures - ManaRawr
ManaRawr
Posts: 95
Sep 05 2011, 11:06 AM
The thing is, i haven't even been looking for love. I've made the most of being single, had my fair share of one night stands and the rest. It's just the fact that every time it seems like someone's interested, I'll get my hopes up just a little and it'll fail. I just wish I knew where I was going wrong. Its not that I won't get with someone unless I'm 100% sure I'm going to be with them for the rest of my life. I just want to know what it's like to be in a proper relationship - to have someone to share everything with, someone who won't care if my make up's immaculate or not, someone who'll give me a cuddle when I need one. This is something I've never had. And DizzyDotRocks, it may well have been me you saw :D I can't remember if I was in town wednesday but I probably way - I always am tbh...
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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Sep 05 2011, 01:44 PM
I didn't mean like you know you're gonna be with them forever, just that you know it's going to be a good, happy, healthy relationship. But, like I said, how do you know that someone doesn't like you? ;)
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18314
Sep 05 2011, 04:33 PM
How does it fail though? Do you actually tell them you like them? So many people including myself don't make things 'official' for a while after seeing each other.. It's all about communication and confidence.
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ManaRawr
Posts: 95
Sep 05 2011, 06:34 PM
Its things like we'll be talking loads and getting on really well then BAM! "______ is in a relationship with ______" and its like daymnn D:
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18314
Sep 07 2011, 04:25 PM
Just get in their faster then. No harming in just going for it :) I have missed opportunities in the past by faffing about with other girls at the same time and regret it.
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ManaRawr
Posts: 95
Sep 07 2011, 05:15 PM
Besides, most guys who show an interest aren't looking for anything longer than a night :/
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Sep 08 2011, 08:11 AM
^ i was like you for agesss ! honest and all i got was guys saying they just wanted fun nothing serious all the blahh blahh but dont settle for it have respect for yourself and an amazing guy will come along its what happened with me it will happen when you least expect it take my word for it :3
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Sep 11 2011, 01:22 PM
I agree with RiRi and I know how you feel. Every single relationship I've been in, was so horrible that I was making excuses to get out of it... and now that I'm in one that I don't ever want to get out of... my parents decide that we are moving... >:O
Oct 03 2011, 11:53 PM
Be proud of that.Changing relationships is not a good thing.No one will ever admire chaninging man like changing underwares.There is nothing wrong with you.It only means you need someone who will be straight to you.
Vitrify
Posts: 25
Oct 04 2011, 08:47 AM
I hope the right person comes along because you are very pretty, and idk how your personality is, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and say you must be sweet/nice. Patience, and I wish you luck.

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