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ForeverTheSickestEmo
Posts: 26
Desperate for some advice please? Oct 02 2011, 12:03 AM
Hey guys.... Okay to start off, I wanted to thank you guys for your advice I got from my last post. I talked with that girl and things worked out pretty good. But on with my different problems. I possibly have gender dysphoria. I am born female and I sometimes have the desire to be a boy. And lately that desire has become stronger. And now I hate that I am a girl. I wish I was boy. I know that if I was a boy, I would be so much happier. I want to be seen as a boy. Not a girl. Everybody I know can't see me as a boy because they've know me as the girl me. I want them to see me not as the girl Alyssa, but as the boy Noah Jay. I hate when they say in old pictures of me that I am so pretty or when my family say I am beautiful. I like when they say I look like a hot guy and I want my family to say I'm handsome (Even though I'm not). But I don't want to lose them. I want to keep my friends, but I want to tell them and same goes for my family. Please what should I do????? And everyone who reads this, please be honest. Do I pass as a male? Even a little? Or do I still look a girl? (BE HONEST NO MATTER WHAT)

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dark-side-risenx
Posts: 493
Oct 02 2011, 03:58 AM
If it helps, I just found out you were a girl. I guess I never checked out your profile or something. :P But then again you may have made a very conciese effort to look like a boy in your dp. XD You could definately pass as a boy, though. :)
nezzyneon
Posts: 896
Oct 02 2011, 09:18 AM
honestly to me, you have a little of the feminine type of face but, you so could pass off as a boy. :) DO whatever makes YOU happy! ^_^ Because you will be beautiful or handsome either way you wish to be.
dark-side-risenx
Posts: 493
Oct 02 2011, 09:30 AM
Actually, idk, you sort of look like some of those people that would be hot as a boy or a girl some how. No homo though. Or hetero. :P
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XKaliberKatastropheX
Posts: 6
Oct 04 2011, 07:40 PM
Honestly, it shouldn't matter what other people think if it makes you happy, and i think you could pass as a boy, definately.
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Oct 13 2011, 08:40 PM
At first glance, I was like damn he's hot! and I think you will find that people are a lot more accepting than you think, you just have to talk to them about it.
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SirAsdalot
Posts: 10
Oct 15 2011, 11:36 PM
"pass as a male"? Doh, you're not a male, never will be. And you should thank the lovely TV and factories who put conservers(conservants? o.o) and other shite into your food and drink that screw up your brain and your hormones. If it makes it any easier for you, being a guy fking sucks. ^^
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Oct 16 2011, 07:02 PM
... no don't even go there...

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