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incaseofemergancy
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Is it just me? Jan 23 2012, 03:17 PM

Kinda need advice from someone. I'm like losing faith in myself. Ive been single for 18 months. And I haven't even had one guy interested in me. I mean I'm not ugly and Im a nice person. But I'm starting to think there's something majorly wrong with me. Anyone else ever had that feeling? Or is it just me? :/

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Jan 23 2012, 07:08 PM

Well, personally, I think there is something wrong with the GUYS, because, you are incredibly beautiful, and I'm sure you are a nice person. Have you tried asking a guy out? Maybe some are intimidated..I mean, now a days when you look at the media, and honestly daily life, some girls are complete bitches, and you can be a nice guy, but not the most popular, or the best looking and get completely shot down without a chance. Not saying you are like that, I'm sure you're not, but seems these days beautiful girls such as yourself+average guy=not happening, according to stuck up, idiotic media. Its not that likely, this scenario, but its a possible one. All I can say, while trying not to go off on some random speech, is if you like a guy, ask him out, seems to me the only good reason a guy could have is to already be married or something to say no to you.. And just because this is how I am, I must say, and even though, I may not be the best looking, but I hope my words still mean something, I'd without a doubt want to ask you out myself. :) So don't lose faith in yourself. You'll find the right guy eventually, just like I hope to find the right girl one day. It just takes some patience, trial and error..

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JCGenocideofNormal
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Jan 23 2012, 07:43 PM

Oh, just realized, that whole thing I wrote, not one bit of actual relevance to the question...lol..>.< But, yes, I'v felt like that, every day really, I see so many girls I like, but would never bother asking them out, cause, they'd say no, without a second thought, they'd say no....Even though I am incredibly kind, sweet, and romantic..I don't care about sex, or kissing(though kissing is always nice..^^) I just want a nice girl, that I can actually talk to, and do all those romantic things you see in movies or in books :3 Just the kinda guy I am, and I rather be this way then be a douche bag looking for a one night stand..

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incaseofemergancy
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Jan 24 2012, 12:15 PM

Haha. Thank you :)) you have restored my faith a little. You see there's not many guys like you left. Which is the problem I guess :/ And a lot of guys don't know That there are girls, like me, who would go for personality over looks. So it's all confusing. :/

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JCGenocideofNormal
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Jan 24 2012, 12:28 PM

I know how you feel :/ Glad I could help you feel better though. :)

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incaseofemergancy
Posts: 17

Jan 24 2012, 03:04 PM

Yeah many thanks :3

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