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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18358

Jun 12 2012, 03:13 PM

Well the main question to start with is how you you feel about this other guy?

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Deleted User

Jun 12 2012, 10:18 PM

The one in love with me, is irritating and doesn't understand I'll never be more than a friend to him!

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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830

Jun 13 2012, 06:42 AM

I'm afraid the only thing you can do is tell him you don't return his feelings, and if he doesn't understand it, keep telling him!

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Jun 13 2012, 01:13 PM

I have been telling him and my boyfriend even told him!

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18358

Jun 13 2012, 04:04 PM

Ignore him for a bit then. As I have said before some people tend to fuel these sort of situations by always reacting.

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Deleted User

Jun 13 2012, 09:22 PM

Okay, I hope that works...

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MidoKilmy
Posts: 237

Jun 14 2012, 08:40 AM

It's kind of regural situation in my life. But I don't like to give false hope.. I say clearly that I have a bf and it won't change. I say that we can be friends. They write for some time or not but then they stop writing. Probably because they're not satisfied with what I can give (and this is not very much, just a talk..). You should tell him what u think. Be confident but not rude. And he should understand.. If he will keep on spamming u can block him but it's not the best solution just alternative.

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Deleted User

Jun 14 2012, 08:16 PM

I tried the whole "I'm sorry, I have a bf, and it will be that way for a long time." Still didn't work. Got my boyfriend to tell him same thing. Didn't work. Still tells me how much he loves me, and how much he hates my boyfriend? Yes. Even asked for my address. Should i block him?

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MidoKilmy
Posts: 237

Jun 15 2012, 12:45 AM

I suppose that u don't know him well and.. How did he get to know u..? Did he started this drama just after that? If he's not anyone close to you, you can block him. Cause I see that he's obsessive. He's like an obsessive fan who will never let go but his love is stupid and unhealthy. You can talk about possible relationships only if u live with sb and then u know what r u doin. He doesn't. If he really loved u, he wouldn't be so selfish and would let u be happy with ur bf. But there is a risk that he will go mad and do sth even more stupid when u block him. I'm not sure what should u do. -.-

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Deleted User

Jun 15 2012, 08:44 PM

Well, he just moved here last year and we became friends through my boyfriend. He told me he loved me at the end of the school year. Only to ask for my phone number BEFORE he told me. He said "I'm so mad at your boyfriend because he has you and I don't." And I just wanted to tell him, "you're a whiny little selfish bitch, you obviously dont love me or you'd wait, instead of being an impatien asshole." BUT since we're friends I didn't want to be mean to him.

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MidoKilmy
Posts: 237

Jun 18 2012, 12:59 AM

Ohh.. It is much more complicated... X.x it will be difficult to keep this friendship alive if he did'n understand his place in your life... But I can imagine what he feels... Long ago I was in love with my friend who had a bf (was bi) and I was the one who had helped them to be together. But our friendship survived and now I'm happy with another guy. Well... Now I see I was waiting for this one for all my life. But I needed that breaking down period and I don't regret it. I hope everything will be ok there with u.. And that he will come to terms with the situation, start to live again. ^-^

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Deleted User

Jun 21 2012, 06:42 PM

Thank youuuu

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