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xXkuraiyoruXx
Posts: 164

Please help us :( Jul 30 2012, 01:42 AM

My boyfriend and I have realized were slowly parting ways since our relationship became long distance....(not that long but ya...) But we need advise.. We love each other soo much. And we don't wanna break up... I just need some help....

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FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189

Jul 30 2012, 01:58 AM

I think you've already convinced yourself of whats important. you and your boyfriend both clearly love each other very much, AND THATS WHAT MATTERS! The thing is long distance relationships are never easy but be patient and let love be your solid foundation! and you will never fail :)

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AngelaMassacre
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Jul 30 2012, 12:45 PM

While you two have distance, do things like Skype with each other if possible, so you two can see each other live. Call each other on the phone every day, just to hear the other's voice. Text each other, watch the same tv programs or films on tv at the same time. All of this stuff works, and it's a form of bonding. If you both love each other, and want to be with each other, don't waste this relationship over distance. If you put your hearts to it, you can make it with the distance! And when a time comes when you can move closer or live together, then it's fixed. :)

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18362

Aug 02 2012, 03:15 PM

Totally agreed on the above. How often do you see each other?

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xXkuraiyoruXx
Posts: 164

Aug 03 2012, 10:08 AM

Like never. My mom doesn't allow me to hang out with guys and I'm not even allowed to date until I'm 16.

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X_LoserKidd_X
Posts: 506

Aug 04 2012, 06:24 AM

LDRs are never easy. In fact, they pretty much suck if both of you don't have your heart in it. But it sounds like you both do...and you both really want to stay together. And that's the driving force, really. If it hasn't been that long then really is just a case of waiting and trying to act as normal. It does get easier with time. I nearly got married once to a guy that started off as a LDR...as we did we found it got better when we made sure we made time for each other. Arrange to meet on Skype and cam at a certain time...or text every day...even random calls just to say "I love you" do wonders. If you really love each other, you'll make it :) x

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FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189

Aug 05 2012, 01:25 AM

I know its easy for me to say this, but like everyone has said live in love. Loves will never let u you down so long as you dont let it down :), Let love work it out, things will always come out the best if you love each other :)

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FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243

Aug 05 2012, 10:55 AM

it won't be easy but it's a case of trusting and loving eachother and as they say.. the longer your appart the fonder the heart gets so when you do meet up the days shall be remembered :) plus it allows plenty of time to be with friends and family when your not together which is a positive :)

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18362

Aug 05 2012, 10:56 AM

I use to be against long distance a while back but have had some long distance relationships since and they were great. However we met fairly often. If we didn't then I doubt they'd of worked out. You just gotta give things a go and see how it goes.

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xXkuraiyoruXx
Posts: 164

Aug 10 2012, 05:26 AM

It doesn't matter anymore...he couldn't take the long distance...he broke up with me yesterday. :'(

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18362

Aug 10 2012, 03:38 PM

*hugs*

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