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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Sep 14 2012, 03:26 PM

What is his actual problem with the emo scene?

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FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189

Sep 14 2012, 07:03 PM

well I dunno, personaly if its my parents I would just not tell them anything, my dad calls me a freak but I try to just let it slide! as for other people well i look a it from a different perspective, rather than be like "I hate you for calling me a freak", im more like "Yea im different so wat, i dont care wat you think". and the only time ide ever react and fight back is if they start somthing! but i dunno im a guy so yea im a bit different :P, one thing hat is probably helpful is just talking to others that are like you, that way you wont get payed out and it should be easier knowing that even though u get payed out, there are others out there just like you!

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zenia101
Posts: 219

Sep 14 2012, 09:35 PM

whats his problem i'm not sure he jsut doesn't agree w/ it he isn't used to it so he doesn't accept which in turn means he doesn't accept me and that hurts more then any thing. since i got here i have done nothing but let him down and i want nothing more than to hear him say that he is proud of me just once and i think it would change alothe thinks emo represents death and all thats evil but it not and he doesn't understand that or me and i don't think he ever will. and that scares me more than anything b/c i am afraid that i will lose him all over again.

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zenia101
Posts: 219

Sep 14 2012, 09:39 PM

if i go very long w/o saying something to my dad he gets all perinoid and acts like i'm gonna go all psyco bitch and freak out on every one and the only time i only do that when they push me i hate being pushed. it pisses me off more than anything is being pushed around and its so hard to talk to them b/c they are so judgmental i hate it.But thats ur dad how can he say that and still sleep at night thats not even right their there to pretect us and teach us not join in with everyone else i don't get how that works and its not fair. but it is nice to no that i'm not the only one eventhough thats how it feels sometimes. how do u deal with it though?

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FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189

Sep 16 2012, 01:10 AM

I know where your coming from, never once in my life has my dad said he's proud of me, and even though I try to think stuff it I dont care, I know I do. Especialy like you said I only ever seem to let him down, like im afraid of hights (just putting it out there) and when we were building a room out the back yard I couldnt even climb up the lader to help him! and seriously the look on his face made me want to leave but you know what, even thoughhe might act like that and stuff. he still cares enough to give me a place to stay and stuff, some dads just have there own strange ways of doing stuff, but deep down he loves you trust me, well thats wat mum says to me anyway :P, but seriously he does care :) i know talking o him might be hard but seriously just do it :), and if the argument gets fired up at all, just try and calm it down by giving him a hug or somthing, lol i should listen to my own advice ive never once done this but its meant to work :P A humans strongets emotion is love, so show a little :)

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zenia101
Posts: 219

Sep 16 2012, 08:27 PM

i do today we spent the day together all of the family we actually didn't agrue at all. it was nice to be together and not get glared at it felt really good and thnx 4 the advice. sum times i'm just afraid of wat will heppen if we do get into another argument b/c the ladt time he hit me and let a bruise not saying it wasn't my fault but still it took alot to stop my self and wat if it goes farther next time and its not just a slap but a punch and then sum thiing else. we both have anger problems i yell he gets physical then thats when i usually start thinking of cutting again b/c i don't want to hurt others so i do it to myself kinda like self punishment for treating them that way or feeling that way.and im sry bout ur dad but if u need to talk im here anytime. if u want i can give u my e-mail i get on there just as much as i do on here.and thnx again.

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