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Emo Forums » Love And Relationships (Reply)

XxDarknessJunctionxX
Posts: 5
Is this sad, or just plain pathetic? :( Feb 09 2013, 02:22 AM
I guess I need some advice on this one, So i fell for this guy and for a while he really liked me back and we were best friends for like 2 years, oneday he asked me to go out with him and naturally I said yes because in the time I got to know him I really did fall inlove with him (not just some schoolboy crush)... It went really well until I got a message three days later from one of his friends on facebook saying "**** is dumping you" That was the only explanantion I got, and it broke me apart and changed me drastically for about 5 months... I heard from his cousin (who I am best friends with) that the reason he dumped me was because he started dating a girl from another school because she 'had a nice mouth' He never told me he was bi or that he was just using me to make fun of me after we broke up, which i found out was also the case when random people started calling out 'faggot' and other names as i walked by. I havn't really talked to him since and have deleted my facebook account, but it is still really affecting me greatly and I feel like i won't find anyone else... The fact that he didn't break up with me face to face HIMSELF was gut-wrenching... Have any of you had a similiar experiance, and if so how did you deal with it?? :(

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Emo Pictures - xXzeniakillsXx
xXzeniakillsXx
Posts: 1
Feb 09 2013, 04:28 AM
Not the same story but I do sort of have feelings for my ex as well after he screwed me over for more than a year and he was my first boyfriend. the way i coped was kind of drastic i guess you can say but i kinda like that he did treat me bad and made me miserable which was my own fault. hes sort of the reason why im like this today and on this site. but keep holding it on is bad so let go. he'll have the same problem one day and than you'll laugh at him c: keep your head up
Emo Pictures - -FiFi-
-FiFi-
Posts: 212
Feb 09 2013, 09:27 AM
not going to lie.. i wouldn't of believed what other people say 100% ever due to the fact people can just lie to get in the way. Did you ask him right after you saw that message or did you just complete believe whatever he said straight off? Also 3 days?? is that after being asked out? in my eyes that never really was/is a relationship and I'm not going to lie, if I was you I would of been a lot more hesitant to say yes as he was your best friend... once your in a relationship with em. it will never be the same :/ (most likely). But even after that.. all I'm going to say is it's not the end of the world.
Emo Pictures - NightAngle
NightAngle
Posts: 2
Feb 09 2013, 08:40 PM
Hun i've been down this path before and let me tell you its going to suck I could just tell you to get over it but if you really want to stop feeling like no ones going to like you change your outlook what you need to do is find a guy whose willing to pose as date or something turn on your Facebook and post pictures of you happy with another guy firstly this will piss of this other guy and will make him see that hes made a big mistake oh and for those who call you a faggot are obviously jealous because of your hotness babe what you need to do is flont what you have and show this guy he has no effect on you trust me it will feel great when you do

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