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XxXKingForADayXxX
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I Really Need Advice This Time Oct 07 2014, 12:21 PM

I know I'm foolish and certain things along those lines, but can someone tell me why do people make fun of me so easily? I really don't get it. Other people on this site go and pick on me because I tell everyone to deal with what I gained. I became a mod recently (Like two days ago) and others don't like it. I'm trying to find out why people don't like who I am and why I am disliked, but no one tells me when I ask for a direct or indirect answer. My friend told me to be strong and don't change for anyone, but I'm rethinking about it because no one likes me for who I am and I'm always made fun of. I've always been made fun of for being myself ever since I was little (Around when I started school at 5 years old). I was always chubby and never as smart as other kids were, and when it was time to play I always was by myself. I've been told I'm selfish, illiterate, stupid, dumb, untalented, fat, retarded, mental, problematic, always depressed, negative, and just plain out something that shouldn't exist on this earth. I want to report the people who say that stuff to me, but I don't want to be hated even more. Even if they do get banned or something along those lines, they end up coming back and even more cruel than before. I don't know what to do anymore

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Autumn_rose
Posts: 50

Oct 07 2014, 07:51 PM

I have a friend with a similar problem Because you have a negative body image and may be a little slower than the other kids you are seen a vulnerable. And from the sound of it you might behave accordingly. You need to show who ever is picking you that you can be hurt. I don't mean get angry and insult them back, but if they confront you respond assertively as you their not worth yo time and energy(which they aren't). I hope you don't what i've said offensively. If need anymore advice feel free to pm me.

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xXLoveMeAsIAmXx
Posts: 7

Oct 10 2014, 06:55 AM

One thing to bear in mind with all this: DON'T CHNGE YOURSELF FOR OTHERS. I can't stress this enough hunni, I've been there done that, changed for people so that they liked me, it's to much effort. At the end of the day, if people don't like something about you, then screw 'em. They're not worth it. The quicker you learn that, the easier things'll get. So what if people don't always like something about you, They can go off by themselves and make room for people who'll eventually get to know and love you. Don't let it hit home hun, I reckon that there's nothing wrong at all with you, some people just can't be bothered to stick around to actually get to know you, which seems stupid. Anyways, I'm probably rambling about all this now, sorry bout that being half asleep doesn't help haha. Just remember to not let them get to you too much hun. :) <3

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rainbowskittledinos
Posts: 10

Oct 29 2014, 06:14 PM

sometimes people pick on you or talk about you because they are jealous of what you have. there may even be a chance that they like you or want to be you. you have to show them that no matter what they say it will not bring you down. you have to be strong. but not only that you have to be confident in who you are. if what they are saying about you aint true. then you have no reason to worry. theyre trying to pick you out and bring you down and make you feel bad about yourself. if you show them that they aint worth your time.. eventually theyll lay off... trust me i am a victim to these kinda things... ive been through it alot.. if you ever need someone to talk to about anything and yes i mean anything i am always here.

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XxXKingForADayXxX
Posts: 44

Oct 29 2014, 06:21 PM

Thank you guys. This helps a bunch c: ~The King ♫♪

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