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Emo Pictures - EmoDeathDoll13
EmoDeathDoll13
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sexuality???? Jan 02 2016, 12:29 AM
okay so, can you be a man who identifies as gay but still end up falling for a woman? like, r u still able to identify as gay or no?? i know wht ur thinking dont bother with labels!!! but this is for a club i help run and im really confused about it

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Deleted User
Jan 02 2016, 12:31 AM
Are you attracted emotionally AND physically to person in question If you're answer is yes to either, I think at that point you're either bi, or pan which is alright. Congratulations! :D
Emo Pictures - EmoDeathDoll13
EmoDeathDoll13
Posts: 11
Jan 02 2016, 12:38 AM
im not bi or pan if anything im poly or demi i know that much i know im demisexual but when it comes to romantic standpoints, i dont know really. i think polyromantic bc i dont often get attracted to females but im unsure.
Deleted User
Jan 02 2016, 01:23 AM
you may be panromantic / bi(hetero?)curious at the very least.
Emo Pictures - EmoDeathDoll13
EmoDeathDoll13
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Jan 02 2016, 01:27 AM
its noottt curious ive liked girls before i just havent had the ability to like females since and i still really dont just one girl so its like i cant like girls (except the one for some reason) at all so im not panromantic its polyromantic ifanything but theres still the one so idk what that is and i know im 100% demisexual
Deleted User
Jan 02 2016, 06:00 AM
if you felt a strong emotional connection toward a sex you're not usually attracted to, it's no big deal. Yeah it's strange, but sometimes you can meet a person of the opposite, or same gender that you feel emotionally drawn to. like i said congratulations for not limiting your attractions based on binary means, maybe the girl in question is quite a gem in your life? I once met a really cute guy i ended up hanging out with at a show a year ago, until that day i've never felt attracted to anything other than girls, or kissed them. After a while I was a little freaked out, since I never pictured myself getting that close to another guy. But after some thought i realized it's not a big deal. I personally don't define love and romance as a binary thing anymore. Live and love anyone and any way that feels right for you. :3 Don't sweat it, enjoy your strange friendship/attraction for what it is. Maybe you'll learn something about yourself.
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xDeadintheDirtx
Posts: 362
Jan 05 2016, 05:22 AM
Don't worry too much about labels and all that,just be yourself,I've learned for a lot of people sexuality is pretty fluid. If you're attracted to someone physically and emotionally that's all that really matters in the end, not what sexual organ they possess.

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