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XxMariMadnessxX
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Why is figuring urself out so difficult???? Feb 15 2026, 12:58 AM

Dudes I can't tell if I'm lesbian or bi, like I daed a guy, I didnt like any of the stuff I had to do w him bc I found it icky but then Ive also been w girl (not like dating more like friends w benefits typa situation) n I rlly liked it - but like what if the only reason I felt like that w the dude bc he was genuinely js gross and undeserving of a relationship?

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Darkenhart
Posts: 9

Feb 15 2026, 11:09 AM

From personal experience:

The best thing to do in these situations within yourself is allow time to tell of course but more importantly; don't allow your subconsciousness make you go chaotic/crazy.

Think of it like this. You're juggling on a unicycle but while trying to balance at the same time, you're thinking too hard on just doing that. And because you're thinking too hard on the balancing alone, you cause yourself to fall and juggle everything you were juggling just fine.

It's okay to think about it, but don't allow it to consume you to the point you become manic about it. It's more of a self-discovery than actually external factors, hence the kind of persons you're into. It takes time, but experience of whom you interact with equates to wisdom; and what follows is what you actually want. It comes natural and once it does; then the desire you wish for will be better than you expected.

I hope this helped!

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XxMariMadnessxX
Posts: 6

Feb 15 2026, 06:21 PM

Tysm!! this acc helps a lot, I never thought of it that way.

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