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CupCake_
Posts: 11
No one knows im Bi O_O Jun 14 2009, 01:38 PM
Im Pretty young and im sure about my sexuality.. i knew i wasnt completely straight from a young age but i havnt pulled the courage for a long time and everyone thinks straight. This is so fking stresssing because i just want it to be out with and i can actually have an open relationship with a girl. My mum is COMPLETELY again bisexuals and homos because it isnt christian and apparently against my religion but i cant help myself i guess im attracted to women sometimes more than men. I want a relationship with a girl but an open one and it isnt possible right now. :(

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Emo Pictures - JustMe
JustMe
Posts: 177
Jun 15 2009, 08:18 AM
What i foudn was i told my mates first some were a bit weird with me over it and others accepted it. I've never told my parents, they would kill me. So, i just went behind their backs... You have to decide what you feel is best, going behind their backs or telling them. I've decided if i ever do tell them i will do it before i move out...even if it means not seeing them again.. Its a bit weird telling your boyfriend though. Mine finds it a bit weird and gets very protective over me, but i kinda like it XD So, i guess its down to personal opinion if you tell or not.
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Whatsername
Posts: 5
Jun 16 2009, 01:58 AM
Why is she against them?! If she is like that, you can keep it as a secret x3 But if it feels bad, you can talk to someone who understands it. ( Some of us on this site, for example.) Im bisexual and my mom has nothing against it, my dad doesn´t care as usual.. Im new on this site, so if you want to talk to someone, im open xoxo
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sorockgirl2
Posts: 2
Jun 17 2009, 04:58 PM
Hey Cuttie Gurl...My Name´s Gabi n Actually i´m lesbian (not bi). I´ve nothing against bi, but i think u should know urself better...Cause knowing u, is the only way 4 u 2 be really sure uv what do u really like/want...I´m not saying only about the sexuality stuff, it works 4 everything. When I first told my parents that i am lesbian, my mommy almost felt on da floor... Then i wondered: Damn, what the hell i´m doing 2 my mommy...Later, My Daddy invited me to have a drink...I accepted. He just looked me in the eyes n said...Why r u dating a guy??? Ur not like this baby, n we luv u just the way u r. Well... I´m with my gurl for 2 years..n tey really luv her!! It´s just awesome.... If U Wanna talk...as our friend said...U can add me...(n everyone else who would like 2 talk)..on my messenger: sorockgirl2@hotmail.com See ya around...
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xXxChrisJWxXx
Posts: 1545
Jun 18 2009, 04:07 AM
Im bi an no one around me knows, I've kept it to myself and it kills me there's only two people I've ever told and they don't treat me any differently but I still don't want to tell anyone else encase they do or I get more crap than I do now. Religion always gets in the way of things like love so just ignore it an your family will find out eventually hun, you just need to find the right time and place to tell people but don't wait too long. Before you tell anyone make sure you know how you feel, you may be 100% now but later just after you tell things could change, as has been said before make sure you are sure of yourself. If your going to tell people though make sure they wont go telling everyone and that they can be comfortable with you how ever you are. Anyway good luck with it an if you want to talk I'm here too.
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Scared-Ust
Posts: 54
Jun 24 2009, 05:08 PM
do what u think the best..
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rush7645
Posts: 4
Jun 25 2009, 01:50 PM
If they are really against it, and if you think that by you telling them you'll really upset them, then I would keep it a secret, at least until you are older and living out on your own. If you are going to be living at home for a few more years, you might avoid a lot of tension/stress between you and your parents by waiting.
WorthLessBitch
Posts: 17
Jul 03 2009, 04:54 PM
I'm a Christian too, but the Bible is full of fuck up contradictions. I know that. It's obvious. All the gay bashing and crap in it. "Judge, lest ye be judged." "Love thy neighbour." You never said how old you are, but my guess is that you won't be living at home forever, right? As for your mum, she will just have to get used to it. No-one, not your parents, friends, random people in the street, or even God or Jesus can decide nor force on you who you are attracted to. x

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