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Dhurkst
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I've never been in a relationship Nov 09 2009, 01:45 PM

Okay, here's the skinny, the 411, whatever you'd like to call it: I'm a pretty shy guy. I've got Asperger syndrome, which basically means that I'm half autistic & half normal. Because of this, I have never had a girlfriend, nor have I so much as kissed a girl in the approximate 16 years & 4 months of my life. At my school, there are BF/GF couples virtually everywhere I look. Needless to say, I'm lovesick. Any advice would be appreciated.

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Pagan
Posts: 605

Nov 10 2009, 04:04 AM

okay lets calm dow what is the rush to get in a relationship??????? i must admit i dun know much about asperger syndrome but i did wiki it so from what i can understand people with aspergers cant interact very well???? sorry if i get this wrong i really am i dun wanna cuase ofences,maybe if there is a girl you like and if you have her number, then text her or call her cus from what i can gather people with aspergers dont respond well in socail situations but maybe it different for you,im try to help but there is no need to get ina relationship,when you find someone you will know, hope i helps i prob didnt tho.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353

Nov 10 2009, 01:39 PM

If you find it hard talking to girls in person, get chatting to some on this site or larger sites like Myspace as friends and hopefully meet up if they're local. I know you might have already tried that, but it's all I can think of atm.

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Nick-Aotmzgin
Posts: 1004

Nov 11 2009, 03:23 AM

>.< get to know girls on chating sites and social communitys:)

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Nov 12 2009, 10:17 PM

you'll gonna find a girl that will love u 4 hu u are..

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GearsOf_WarEmoDude11
Posts: 8

Nov 14 2009, 06:25 AM

You will find someone who will love you for you don't worry dude ^^

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LipsOfDeceit
Posts: 2168

Nov 14 2009, 12:53 PM

I've just said this on anothe forum topic but lifes not all about boyfriends and girlfriends. It's not worth getting down about. :] Plus I'm sure your a nice person, try building up your confidence somehow, speek to people and i'm sure you'll meet some very awesome people :)

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kasumisaur
Posts: 66

Dec 30 2009, 01:23 PM

Ehm, I think I would've started talking to strangers (friends of you're ffriends) that don't know about your diecise (unless it showns? sorry, but I don'tknow anything about it..) and after a while you feel more confident about yourself. And as the person ooverme said; life's not just about girlfriends/boyfriends. :3

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melonhead82
Posts: 1

Jan 05 2010, 06:17 AM

I'm exactly the same but im waiting for someone special thats what u do theres someone there for everybody

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hellokitty_queenXx
Posts: 19

Jan 27 2010, 02:57 PM

okay first of all it must be hard for you i understand, and never being in a relationship whilst everyone else is at school isn't helping either, but don't worry you will find someone no matter what there is someone out there for you. i thought i would never be in a relationship but i have had 3 boyfriends in 2 years. and you are really young so don't worry about it or why don't you try talking to a girl and start socializing, its a start even though you might be shy. best of luck :]

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