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ChocolateBubbles
Posts: 163
I need some advice :' Jan 17 2011, 07:18 AM
My bffl, is really pissed when she saw my arm and its red lines. She said if I don't stop, she won't talk to me ever again :< And my other guyfriends have started cutting, but they're worse than me :< If my mum finds out...I'm dead -.-' Has anybody get any advice? I feel so alone lately :< And I can't stop cutting D; I just got to the point in life, where you have no idea what to do..

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Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7255
Jan 17 2011, 07:25 AM
awwww.... well be strong! <3 and u can talk to me u know that rite? xD <3 well u r beautiful and should not harm ur beautiful skin and who the hell is makin u cut urself? if i would see them then they would be thankful if they would get away from me without apologizing to u! >:( u r unique and the best feature u have in my opinion is that u always makes me laugh u should be a comedian <3 x
Emo Pictures - RiotBenson
RiotBenson
Posts: 4
Jan 17 2011, 08:21 AM
if she was a good friend she would help you through it. all of my bestfriends saw and found out what i had done and helped me through it, they got me help - which at first, i wasn't comfortable with talking to a stranger about my problems but this women helped me and now i've moved back in with my family and im a complete different person. my advice is get your friend to help you :)
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 17 2011, 08:46 AM
Well my only advice is to STOP!!!! I guarentee that after only like a week of cutting you aren't addicted yet so you're still in the stage to where you could stop... all i have to say is stop before its too late, talk to your friend, talk to your mom, I guarentee it's not going to be as bad as you think
eMoKiDfrmNorWay
Posts: 68
Jan 17 2011, 09:47 AM
i agree with nikki :> You should have told me, sorry i wasn't online when you wrote to me. But i advise you to stop cutting, i've said it once before and i'll say it again. It's only going to make it worse in the length ;P so please, just stop, if you feel lonely you can always talk to us, but i understand it's not a very good "substitute" for your real friends, but it may help? ;P u know im here for you, most of my time. The first step is always stopping the cutting ...
Zitella-Zoe
Posts: 24
Jan 17 2011, 10:41 AM
I use to cut and my best friend (bless her) did the same thing . She cried and cried and told me if I didn't stop she was going to get me help . But my parents found out before she had a chance . They weren't mad they were mostly sad . So I know you don't want any one to find out but you should tell someone and get some kind of help . And don't be mad at your friend . Trust me she cares a lot for you . I wouldn't be here if not for my friend .
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Lunar_Elipse
Posts: 10
Jan 17 2011, 12:34 PM
I know I don't know you but I saw your post and couldn't help but respond. I've been down the same road and it gets scary and lonely and the more you do it the more you want it. It doesn't help anything though. My advice is to talk to your mom. Tell her why you've been cutting and what made you feel the need to keep going. When my dad found out he wasn't angry he was just scared for me. He wanted to understand why and when I explained he tried to understand. He got me help and I stopped feeling the need to hurt myself. I stopped feeling alone and things got better overall. If your scared of talking to your mom talk to a school councelor or another adult you trust and they'll help you figure out what steps to take from there. As for your guy friends I think you should give them the same advice and tell them that you care about them and want them to be happy. I wish you the best of luck hun.
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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 17 2011, 02:33 PM
I agree one hundred percent ^ ^
Emo Pictures - xXkuraiyoruXx
xXkuraiyoruXx
Posts: 164
Jan 17 2011, 07:30 PM
Thats happening to me too i also need help about it
Emo Pictures - xXkuraiyoruXx
xXkuraiyoruXx
Posts: 164
Jan 17 2011, 07:33 PM
But my mom would kill me she wouldnt do it fast ahh for the better. I cant stop though I tryed
ChocolateBubbles
Posts: 163
Jan 17 2011, 08:39 PM
Thank you guys for your help ^^ I'm gonna tell my mum on the way to school...My teacher wants to speak with my mum aswell, I can't decide if shes found out, or she's gonna tell my mum about my ex-boyfriend... :P I think my mum knows anyway, she took my scissors away last night o.O When I asked her where they were, she was like, Oh sorry, I left them downstairs...
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 18 2011, 09:39 AM
lol, I'm glad you're telling your mom (:
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jan 18 2011, 01:46 PM
Yea tell your mum. It might be difficult and upsetting but you'll certainly be glad you did in the long run.
Deleted User
Feb 15 2011, 04:28 AM
id tell them how you feel about her saying that because if she was a good mate shed help you its happened to me my m8s rejected me because of it xx

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