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Emo Forums » Help And Advice (Reply)

RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
How can i help him ? Jan 18 2011, 08:41 AM
My dad is an alcoholic he has been for about 40 years of his life my dad is 68 yehh he is old ! Well recently well the last 4 years he has been getting ill but has been recovering from it. However now he isnt recovering from illnesses but doesnt want help. He has gangreen in his legs they need to be amputated for him to stay alive but he wont do it. He has to much pride i think but he has me my sister and his grandaughter to think about. His liver is fucked only something stupid like 10% of it is working but he wont have a transplant even though they said he can be put higher up on this list because my sister and myself would pay for the transplant. He has been throwing up all liquids and solids he's dehydrated cant talk properly and cant walk properly. All he can drink now is milk he cant chew anything anymore half his teeth have fallen out where he has fallen over because he has been so drunk. Everyday he goes nextdoor where another alcoholic lives they drink about a few bottles of whiskey together. I actually dont know what to do. He wont go to the doctors he wont go to hospital but he really needs to. Can i force him to go ? My older sister is the next of kin but she isnt his blood daughter but she said i can make decisions and she will sign the papers as she is over 18. Can i force him to go for his own good ?

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Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 18 2011, 09:41 AM
yes you can. and i would, he sounds like he's really bad. if you are the oldest blood reletive than you need to take the initative to get his legs amutated, get him his liver transplant and get him into rehab
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 18 2011, 12:55 PM
I dont want him to resent me He has a lot of pride :/
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Jan 18 2011, 01:51 PM
This made me quite sad. I have some past experience with this as well with a relative. The sad thing is some people as much as you try don't want to be helped. Do everything you can though and never think to yourself you have failed.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 18 2011, 01:54 PM
My minds a mess. I have no idea what to do i have an exam in the morning and all im doing is worrying about him. I have failed him i wasnt there when he needed me now its gone too far.
Jeff_MCRnutter
Posts: 332
Jan 18 2011, 02:07 PM
u do need to force his hand even if he does hate u ud still be doing it for his own good, n maybe its the sacrifice u might have to make in order to save him from himself
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jan 18 2011, 07:31 PM
agreed, and once he's sobered up for good he'll look back and think wow, was I really that dumb
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 19 2011, 12:37 PM
He said he'd go to the doctors tomorrow.... It will probably be too late for him Its too late for me
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Jan 20 2011, 03:25 PM
^Keep us updated anyway!
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 21 2011, 01:43 PM
He lied He didnt go to the doctors or the hospital He's dying all i can do is sit here and watchh Maybe i should do something about it I dont want to watch him die
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Jan 21 2011, 02:00 PM
twinny.. u must do something ....before it's to late ! <3 x
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 21 2011, 02:09 PM
Not with him he wants to die he can die i tried my all with him to the point i got ill I mean about me i dont want to watch and go through this shit anymore... </3
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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253
Jan 21 2011, 02:17 PM
ohh..sorry twinny >.< :( well u r strong and u have an awesome boyfriend who loves u try to rely on him more....i am sure that ha can support u .. just let him try and u will be feeling better <33333 x
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 21 2011, 02:28 PM
Yehh i do Doesnt change the fact he is dying and i dont want to be here
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Vybz
Posts: 1466
Jan 21 2011, 05:19 PM
After reading your story I felt very sorry for you, my heart and my prayers go out to you and family. One thing that I have learn't is that sometimes it's best to do something than to do nothing at all. call the National Health Service or whoever can deal with the matter.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jan 22 2011, 10:08 AM
I cant thats my whole point i cant do anything im not over 18 and im not his next of kin. Im useless !
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 02 2011, 09:08 AM
He's refusing to take tablets to eat or drink. Its now a waiting game for him to die. Thought i'd let you all know but iyou probably dont care haha
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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Feb 02 2011, 02:17 PM
I certainly care, but sadly I know there isn't anything I can do to help.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 03 2011, 08:30 AM
Waiting game for everyone to die i guess Thats life
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Feb 04 2011, 01:26 PM
It's one definition of life, but not one you should concentrate on.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Feb 04 2011, 02:15 PM
what have i got ? seriously not much of a dad and no guy :/

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