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EmoDancerLol
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Attractions May 02 2011, 10:01 PM

Okay, so I thought of this topic in a side aspect from "What type of guys are you attracted to?" I'd like to know, what kind of guys do you attract? And why do you think that they get attracted to you? I'd also like to make that question be posed towards guys too, what sort of girl do you attract, and what kind of girl do you tend to like?

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Jul 29 2011, 12:23 AM

Yeah. I'm sure i'll find her one day..Its hard to get out their and look. I'm a really shy guy(and i cant drive yet>.>), and now a days girls don't wait to look past your physical appearance and its just like why try? They are just going to make you crash and burn. Not all girls are like that of course, but most are. Admittedly i find alot of girls on the site attractive(who doesn't), the ones i'v talked to are quite nice. But i'm sure thats not what you mean and i find internet formed relationships pointless most the time, cause really how often do you find someone you could actually have a way to see irl, and maintain that relationship. That and who knows whos a 50 year old fat pedo dude on the web now a days. Closest person to me that i'v met is 10 hour drive away. But i'm just rambling now so i'll save anyone who actually reads this some time and shut up. =p

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7255

Jul 29 2011, 04:52 AM

^ naaaaw.. well i hope that u will some sweet girl for urself sometime soon then cuz u seem to deserve it.... :3 anyway i don't even need to flirt to get guys attention sometimes....which can be both good and bad ..depending on the situation xD x

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Princess-OF-Pain
Posts: 432

Jul 29 2011, 08:53 AM

i attract older guys too and ive been loooking for the right guy but every time i go to meet them my mum ends up stopping my plans :( i reli want to meet the perfect guy who just loved me for me :(

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Jul 29 2011, 02:14 PM

Thank you. ^^

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EmoDancerLol
Posts: 169

Jul 29 2011, 04:50 PM

Your mum is stopping you for a good reason I imagine. Being young (despite how mature we think we are from our experiences-including myself)...... Eh, I feel like If I meet anyone at this point all they'll want is to bed me at this point. That sucks, I know that's not true. The point is there are people who will take advantage of you so be careful.

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Jul 30 2011, 03:42 AM

^agreed! x

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jul 30 2011, 09:35 AM

Just quickly touching on the Internet thing above... it's popular nowadays to get chatting to people on the Internet and meet up with them and form a relationship.. I have done it before!

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nikkiwest
Posts: 2440

Jul 30 2011, 03:17 PM

... I tend to be more attracted to Gay guys that are unavalible -_-

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BreezyBelonephobia
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Aug 01 2011, 01:06 AM

for some reason I attract older guys, pedophiles, sex hungry assholes, guys that like to play with your heart. occasionally i get a good guy/girl that i'm with for a little while, but something has to get in the way. I'm attracted to emo/scene/goth/metal dudes with the gauges and piercings and sometimes tatts, i like long hair with the whole emo cut, but i am more interested in a guys personality than looks. In a girl I like the cute emo/scene girls with the hair and the clothes, I love girls that are nice and someone to have fun with.

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Aug 01 2011, 05:43 AM

^ agreed with the most u just said there except for that about the girls since i am more into guys! lol x

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BreezyBelonephobia
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Aug 01 2011, 02:42 PM

Lol yea, I tend to be in more relationships with girls.

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AudreyAffection
Posts: 39

Aug 01 2011, 10:57 PM

i tend to attract nicer guys....although i cant say i havent attracted a few bad guys before O.o

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Princess-OF-Pain
Posts: 432

Aug 02 2011, 03:45 PM

Matt, yeah i agree. internet dating is common and thats how a lot of ppl find each other. as long as your being safe and not running off to meet ppl in strange places with no ppl around it shouldnt be a problem x im glad it worked out for u :)

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Aug 02 2011, 03:57 PM

It has worked a few times and I'm proud to say that. Some people still think it's geeky who cares! Not everyone can just go upto a random person and get in a relationship... Girls that tease me is an attraction. Tbh most emo girls attract me unless they are too young..

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BreezyBelonephobia
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Aug 02 2011, 04:03 PM

alot of ppl think just becuz its an internet relationship its not serious, like when ppl here i'm dating they got all happy and intrigued by it and then when they find out its on the internet they just don't take it seriously anymore lol. Yea I've been in alot of relationships with older guys that I shouldnt have been with in the first place, actually I think i'm cursed, all my really cool guyfriends will fall for me so hard I can't even be friends anymore becuz their so obsessed...

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EmoDancerLol
Posts: 169

Aug 02 2011, 07:29 PM

Has anyone ever tried OkCupid?

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7255

Aug 11 2011, 09:00 AM

^ is okcupid a dating site? xD lol i am not that desperate for a guy so that i am on that type of sites :p lol x

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Princess-OF-Pain
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Aug 11 2011, 10:03 AM

i think internet dating is fine and yeah i fall for alot of older guys, some of them fall for me too. but then my mum gets involved and it ends :( but i met someone online through a friend and my mum hasnt stopped my recent relationship and i got to meet him too :) x

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Aug 11 2011, 10:37 AM

^ well yeah internet dating is fine lol i just meant that i am not into all thos sites that r focusing on dating LOL! x

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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830

Aug 11 2011, 02:31 PM

I got to know my last boyfriend online (through another forum actually XD), so I have no problem with internet dating. I'd do it again, but I couldn't date someone who lived too far away - he lived an hour away, and even that put a strain on our relationship :/

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