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Victoria8-Bit
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To the boy's on the interweb. Apr 11 2012, 01:26 PM

Let's get down to buisness (Girls I would love to hear from you aswell) What does everyone find attractive in a person? and im not just talking mentally , im talking EVERYTHING , what usually causes the initial spark for you?

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S-U-I-C-I-D-A-L-SOUL
Posts: 20

Apr 11 2012, 03:18 PM

t don't really think about a boys looks too much when I meet them, I am mostly set on finding out a lot about them and if they are like me in anyway then they are cool, because having things in common is definitely always good to keep a strong relationship. If they are nothing like me then they are potential friends but nothing too serious, but don't get me wrong, I DO notice when I think a guy is hot :P. I mean who isn't gonna notice the hotest guy in school walking down the halls? Nobody! hahaha.

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wHY_mE
Posts: 13

Apr 11 2012, 03:53 PM

Hair, Piercings, Tattoos. The Emo/Scene style is really attractive for me. I would prefer to be with somebody who I can relate to. I mean if you don't have anything in common what the hell are you going to do?

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Apr 11 2012, 08:17 PM

Personality first off. Most important, shes gotta be smart, sweet, kind, loves me for who I am. Looks come second :P I'll admit not ALWAYS, I mean if I don't find you physically attractive. I can't help it, no amount of good personality will change my mind. Friends? Sure, more than that no sorry :/ You seem like a nice person so far, and your very pretty. But I took a quick glance at your photos...And I hope you don't take it offensively. But you show a little more cleavage than a pretty girl like you needs to. I personally would like you easily in a turtle neck with sweat pants or something on :P Just saying, you are attractive, and you seem like a nice person, to much cleavage though.

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LostAndLeftForDead
Posts: 17

Apr 12 2012, 12:12 AM

usually i tend to like pretty and cute girls, that can be themselves and not care what others think. it's even better if they understand me, or at least make an effort to understand me, as i would make the same effort for them.

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mind_twist
Posts: 14

Apr 12 2012, 04:39 AM

The eyes are the first thing i look upon, they mostly tell us a story of that person. In my opinion a girl needs to have the courage to stand up for her self and what see believes in.I don't mind when girls think that something of there body is ugly but when somebody only see's the negative sides of them self they are only a shadow of the person they could be. The girl should be interested in more then the average day life and she shouldn't base her life on one aspect of her self. And the outside of a girl.....i really don't mind, good looks is a plus, but as long as i can look at her with out throwin up i'm fine. Well that would be my short list (:The full version will take me about.....3 days to explain xD ps: My excuse for any bad grammar

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Victoria8-Bit
Posts: 5

Apr 12 2012, 04:51 AM

Its fine I don;'t take any offence. Although I firmly believe that if you got it dont be affraid to show it. then again that could ALSO be the selfconcious side of myself trying to distract people away from my flaws :)

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Jackson-ThatGuy
Posts: 10

Apr 12 2012, 03:07 PM

Well. I gotta say. Anything Scene/Goth/Emo will really catch my eye. It's really hard to see where I live. But when I ger to know someone; if they're similar to me, that'll do me fine. Exceptionally well.

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Rayceofrfts
Posts: 3

Apr 12 2012, 04:22 PM

First off I know this sounds bad but its true she has to look good. Which can be alot of reasons why personally if she has a piercing or two and dyed hair I fall head over heels. Second she has to be smart and have a great personality. Then finally music choice if it just goes opposite of what I like then its a definite turn off.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Apr 14 2012, 09:10 AM

Someone I can have a laugh with and there be no awkwardness.

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xXMessedUpXx
Posts: 149

Apr 14 2012, 09:41 AM

There does need to be the initial attraction (i seem to have a thing for tall skinny emo guys haha) but its not the most important for me. Someone who doesn't take life too seriously, has shared interests and is understanding (and in my case isn't put of my my mentalness). Someone who can make me smile and laugh :)

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Jun 07 2012, 08:35 PM

i like emo girls that are smart and expressive i personaly like dark hair but looks count for something if they didnt have looks we could be very good friends but looks do count

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ThatEmoKid
Posts: 70

Jun 09 2012, 04:05 AM

I like when a girl is cute but not overly bubbley. I like it when they joke around with me. (make joke insults n stuff). Alot of guys don't like girls to follow them around all the time but I don't mind it.

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NotWithoutAFight
Posts: 355

Jun 09 2012, 07:47 AM

A connection, something that sparks off when you first meet them, and an attraction to their personality, that mystery. Also someone who accepts me for who i am and doesn't judge.

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TheBleedingDream
Posts: 101

Jun 09 2012, 07:48 PM

a huge smile is always my biggest weakness if you can smile and blush even then im instantly your slave

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Jun 10 2012, 09:47 AM

Someone who clearly likes me as much as I like them. Ahh some girls are so unbelievably cute :)

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voodude955
Posts: 13

Jul 16 2012, 06:43 PM

I think girls that are psychos arr acually pretty awesome n they are game n deffo emo punk or goth

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nezzyneon
Posts: 896

Jul 16 2012, 08:10 PM

eyes and their charming smile :) <--physical appearence

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Falling_In_Hate
Posts: 9

Jul 18 2012, 04:48 PM

scene/emo/goth as a generality. creative, smart, funny, slightly mad and weird as well. SNAKEBITES :3 love snakebites so much!

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ChickenNoodles
Posts: 67

Jul 18 2012, 05:08 PM

Personally, I'm not a great believer of types because if you truly love somebody then you accept them for who they are. But black hair on a guy is just instant points. Has to have good English skills, doesn't necessarily have to be a spelling bee but contains basic knowledge of proper grammar, kinda annoys me when they send texts like 'wht r u doin?'. Can keep a conversation going, awkward silences are terrible >.<' I know all girls say this but a sense of humor is great. Someone who can join in on my weirdness & I can be myself with c;

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fluffypants102
Posts: 11

Jul 20 2012, 04:18 AM

hair

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