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FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464

Aug 20 2013, 03:31 PM

You could always use Johnny Depp's advice of 'If you love two people, chose the second one because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second one." However, in your situation... Listen. Never go for guys who use emotional blackmail so you stay with them. They'll use it against you all the time. Trust me, I used to be with a guy who threatened to kill himself over me, and you know what? He's still here today, very much alive and going from girl to girl.

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Scruffle-Up-A-Kiss
Posts: 6

Aug 20 2013, 08:37 PM

In all honestly, if you love one more than the other, pick the one you love more instead of keeping them both strung along. and if guy #2 keeps changing the topic just change it back! i don't think it's wrong to love two people, but i don't think it's right either. So, as they say "If you love something set it free" and let one of two go. I'm sure the other will understand.

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MadelineAngel
Posts: 52

Sep 29 2013, 11:56 PM

If that guy is blackmailing you, he doesn't deserve you. Simple as that.

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Xolivia-von-sodomyX
Posts: 510

Sep 30 2013, 11:15 AM

I was in a very similar situation were I was dating some on I met on here for a good amount of time but I started to lose feelings for them and gain them for one of my old friends who has always been there for me and knows me better that my old bf did. so I broke up with the guy from here and started dating my old friend and I tell you I couldn't be happier. but my ex threatens to kill him self and tells me he is cutting him slef. that stuff is just immature and he is only saying that to try to contral the situation. if I was you I would ignore him he dosent sound like a good pick any way seeing he has a girl and all. that's what I did but you gotta follow your heart and not worry about threats that's what I did and im soooooo happy.

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-FiFi-
Posts: 212

Sep 30 2013, 12:58 PM

well both seem to give some means of blackmail saying if you don't pick him or if you love someone else so to me both don;t seem like great people from knowing that. As said, I wouldn't keep them guessing for too long for it is like pulling them along a string and it'll only make things worse.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18338

Sep 30 2013, 01:02 PM

^SO true!

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Kate
Posts: 4198

Oct 15 2013, 11:06 AM

I agree with Fifi

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MidoKilmy
Posts: 237

Nov 04 2013, 04:48 AM

Threatening like this is very immature but in most cases it's just a drama, empty words... They shouldn't be so egoistic. If someone really loves you, he should accept whatever you choose and wish you were happy. However I understand it may be hard... But if you want to make a hoice take a few facts into consideration: 1. You know the first one in rl. And you've been friends for a long time so you probably know much about him. It's a safer choice, more predictable... 2. The second one is a guy from the Net... You don't know him well and he may appear very different in real life conditions. But what bothers me the most is his gf. If he treated you seriously, he wouldn't be with her. I'va got a feeling that he plays with you or is undecided... It's ok if you're interested in poligamy but if you want a bf for yourself you should force him to make a decision. If he can't choose, just give it up. u.u

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