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llwolfll
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ex Sep 04 2013, 07:13 PM

Lately with my life i haven't been able to trust anyone with pretty much anything tbh, after what my ex did to me i lost alot of trust in girls but she wasn't the only one to make me feel that way, ever since ive tried to talk to girls but they have been all the same, non trustworthy or just knobs and this goes for guy aswell because i know they can be just the same, don't want to sound sexist. When ever i meet someone new the first thing that comes to mind is, how this one going to back stab me, ive lose alot trust with people lately, alot more that i already have, i no long care for people as i did, i do have a hand full of people i care for but i can see them going away slowly. Im not really asking for advice to over come this sort of thing but advice is always nice but i just guess i need to get how i feel out and there alot more than this that needs to come out but i have never had anyone to vent to so its nice to talk about but anyway i thought id just say how i feel tbh sorry for the long ass text

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SteffySilence
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Sep 04 2013, 08:12 PM

you know, you're not alone. im the sameway. my ex made me just not want to trust a guy ever again. ive been single for 2 1/2 months now. i was with him for a year. and now i cant seem to pull myself out of a rut. i was close to him. i did everything i could to make him feel more secure about himself. i did his hair cause he wanted me too. we went and got lip piercings together. than he goes back up to where he moved back up too. and now he's a dick. a legit ass hole. a douche bag. i fell in love with him cause i could talk to him about anything and everything. he held me and asked me what was wrong when i was upset. he would push me to tell him. hed hug me if i was upset. but now. now. hes got a new gf. so he says. and now i cope everyday. pushing myself and saying hey it'll get better. you'll be okay. you're beautiful just the way you are. love yourself more. remind yourself how beautiful you are as a person. cause right now. it's yourself that matters. that's what im trying to do at least :D

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-FiFi-
Posts: 212

Sep 05 2013, 03:36 PM

well trust doesn't come in a click it does take sometime. I believe however, when meeting every new person, it's like starting a new leaf. Not everyone is the same and everyone is not like that, therefore you shouldn't judge people upon events which they didn't course.

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llwolfll
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Sep 05 2013, 03:59 PM

Just wanted to say thank you all :)

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