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I am not sure about your ages here, but one thing to keep in mind is that younger people, especially teens, are not really ready to pick just one person. I understand how you feel though. Being used is never a good thing. I blame this mostly on the medias sensationalizing young relationships. In older days, dating meant exactly that. People would go out on dates, with many people. It was only a long time, and several dates with the same person, that they decided they liked each enough to go steady. Even then, in was often years before they would wed. Society has degraded so badly these days that most young people have no sense of belonging without a relationship though, and this causes problems due to the level of inexperience (not talking about sex but emotional/social). Whatever her reasons, or explanations are, just know that it is not your fault. My advice, considering what she's done, the hesitation on her part, and the fact that anything from this point on would be long distance, is to let her go. It may hurt for a while, but you will recover. Nobody should ever be so reliant on another person that they feel the need to harm themselves, or worse, without their presence. You are the only you there is. You are special and unique. You should stand tall on your own. You deserve more than just words of love over a messenger. You need somebody to hold and whispers things too, somebody to hang with and do the everyday normal things with. It's never ok to give up, but it is ok to let go. There's a difference. I hope this helps in some small way. ~D

Well What he said was a good point. You are still a teenager. You need to talk to her about it and work it out. And if she really loves you back she will realize what she did was wrong and ask for forgiveness. If not, then she doesn't deserve you. Stay strong. I'm always here to help.

Thx both of you, I don't think I have to leave her because of the long distance problem but I am gonna talk to her and try to sort all out and if I do have to I'll leave her. I guess it's true I shouldn't feel I have to be with her to be happy but it's hard because I've had depression for so long and this was the only thing that really helped me.