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soEmo.co.uk - Emo Kids - finnzafreak

finnzafreak

Finnley
17 / Female / mystery town >:3, United Kingdom
Bisexual / Forever Alone
Member since: Jan 23, 2026
Last online: Mar 11, 2026

Current rating: 9.6/10 (14 votes cast)

About Me

loser, stupid, usually lonely, and angsty. i promise i can b cool sometimes but likeeeee only sometimes :PPPP

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Favourite Music

twenty one pilots 

"these songs were a result of struggle. struggle is something that everyone experiences. why we all walk around pretending that we don't is a problem deeply rooted in our human makeup. you will find heavy and dark lyrics strategically disguised as catchy melodies and creative song structures. we would like you to think and write for yourself. writing down what you think is imperative. a human must create. that's why we were made." - twenty one pilots.

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mcr, fob, p!atd, paramore, a heartwell ending, i hate myself, merchant ships, the high court, taking back sunday, PUP, dashboard confessional, thursday, modern baseball, title fight, asking alexandria, american football, the front bottoms, love you to death, threeway, hawthorne heights, new found glory, rites of spring, newfound interest in conneticut, secondhand serenade, hayley williams, the weather might say otherwise, if these arms were longer than the trees, being as an ocean, pierce the veil, oakwood, marietta, the hotelier, la dispute, cap'n jazz, oso oso, radiohead, empty parking lot, evanescence, camping in alaska, defeater, saosin, you blew it!, midwest pen pals, captain we're sinking, further seems forever, texas is the reason, phoebe bridgers, the get up kids, saves the day, death cab for cutie, jimmy eat world, gunslikegirls, picture me broken, free throw, the world is a beautiful place & i am no longer afraid to die, scary kids scaring kids, cute is what we aim for, circa survive, attack attack, the academy is, senses fall, dot dot curve, from first to last, matchbook romance, a bullet for pretty boy, pretty sick, the mountain goats, the brobecks, mitski

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Education / Occupation

student... :3

Who I'd Like To Meet

tyler joseph and josh dun hehehe...

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butttttt on here it'd b cool 2 make sum frens..!!

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murdererinflorence
Mar 03 2026, 06:54 AM

hey Finn, if only words could tell HOW MUCH I appreciate those words. Thank you, I hope everything goes well for you too!! :3

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murdererinflorence
Feb 20 2026, 08:18 PM

hey!! thank you for the kind words, your pics are bloody awesome as well!!! hope to see more of you :DDD

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Mar 11 2026, 11:03 AM

wednesday march 11th 2026


i'm evil. yeah, i'll say it. i can never tell if you actually care but the distance from you is weird. i think the worst part is i know it'll last longer, and i'm not gonna do anything about it. remember when you'd tell me how worried you were that we'd grow distant after school ended? and i reassured you every time, saying that that could never happen. not when we were as close as we were, and we had bonded over so much. how was i supposed to know things would turn out like this? i didn't lie to you, i never did. i never thought that i'd be forced to pull myself away, and the guilt eats me alive each and every time the universe forces me to see your face, if only for a minute or two. 

i wonder what your family thinks. i know you're close, or at least, closer with them than i'll ever be with mine. do they hate me? do they tell you all the horrible little things they thought about me, yet kept to themselves at the time, just to make you feel better?

"she was ugly anyways, you can do better than that. she was obnoxious and loud, you'll find someone with more manners. truth be told, i always hated her hair, and her clothes, and her voice, and her face, and her personality. maybe it's for the best that she's gone."

i couldn't say i blame them. they wouldn't be wrong, and if it makes things easier for you, i'd even want them to say that. or am i overestimating how much you even care? do you? at all? what if this is incredibly contradicting to me, yet bliss for you. finally free from the only friend you didn't ever care about. did you only keep me around because i was the only one left? because you had no other options? 

whatever you feel, i guess i'll never know. you aren't like me, and i'm beginning to realise that. you don't post about your feelings, and you never spoke to me about them. it was always thrilling to find out you'd been upset or angry over something i did... days or even weeks after the fact. if at all. maybe this is one of those things i'll just never find out about.

of course i hope that we'll grow close again, that this is just a month-long phase of stupidity and teenage emotion. come on, i write about you so much, it's obvious that i'm still holding on. i miss you every time, but there shouldn't have to be a time to miss you.

life isn't perfect; people argue, and grow distant, and lose one another. but that doesn't have to be permanent. if i got back in touch with someone that i thought hated me for 3 whole years, we can bounce back from this. it just takes time. time that eats me alive with each passing second, but time nonetheless.


...... i don't know what to say about me outside of that situation. isn't everyone depressed nowadays? i'm not special or different, just an attention-seeking autistic freak who thinks too much. 

Mar 04 2026, 11:12 PM

i miss my gorgeous and groovy husband... sighs... disco bear come home...


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Mar 03 2026, 11:29 PM

tuesday march 3rd 2026


im so fucking sleeeeepyyy man..... and highkey evil?

i'm being a major hypocrite, but taking my mind off of you has been freeing over the last few days. besides, is it really ignoring you if you barely try to keep in touch anyway? i'm not completely blanking you, mainly just taking a step back so i can actually try to be happy. and, boy, have i been happy. bad for us, good for me? i'm assuming you have other people to shift your focus onto. well, i know you do, since that's what you've been doing for the past few weeks. try to play victim if you want, but i truly think it's a team effort of disinterest. and in all honesty, mine only stemmed from yours.


BUT! enough of that! my DVDs come tomorrow, i just took a fat nap, and i miss disco bear from happy tree friends... how did my all time least favourite character become my beautiful fat husband over the span of like... a week? i'm smooching him...

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Mar 01 2026, 10:23 PM

sunday march 1st 2026 (again)


thinking about disco bear and flaky from happy tree friends....... my otp....... thinking about lumpy from happy tree friends.... and toothy..... and flippy......... and petunia......... and lifty and shifty............. I LOVE HAPPY TREE FRIENDSSS I CANT WAIT FOR MY DVDS TO ARRIVEEEEEEEE AAAAAHHHHHH


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Mar 01 2026, 02:59 PM

sunday march 1st 2026


i know what you do when you stop liking someone. you dont cut them off, you pretend. are you pretending? i'm literally no better than mmt at this point. i think i'm the new him, now that you guys have "stopped talking" (if i even believe that).


anyway, HAPPY TREE FRIENDS!!!! i bought the first 3 happy tree friends dvds and they come between march 3rd-4th!!!! im so freaking excited.....


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Feb 26 2026, 06:28 PM

thursday february 26th 2026


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Feb 25 2026, 05:53 PM

wednesday february (got it right this time!!!) 25th 2026 (again)


cough, cough... i am sick T^T

i managed to swallow pills!!! you know, um , like the plastic capsules.. ive always rlly struggled to swallow them but i managed to do it 2day!!! im such a pro at illness >:D

i played a little roblox... realised how much it kinda suckz nowadays :/// i miss 2017 roblox... BUT my avatar is still da torchbearer from twenty one pilots!! >:3 da only band in da world... ><

ermmmm erm erm erm i am getting soup 4 dinner heheh annddd i think i mite stay off tmrw and work from home yippee!!!!! 

i hope evry1 on dis website has a very good day actually NO!!! a good FOREVER especially my goat murdererinflorence... ;D

Feb 25 2026, 05:04 PM

wednesday january 25th 2026


LIFE! IS!... BETTER!!!!!!!!!!

so i broke up with my ex best friend in 2023 right? march 2023 right? AND I LVOE HER SO MUCH OK AND AND AND WE'RE BACK IN TOUCH!!!!!!!!! i texted her saying how cool she is and long story short WE MET UP ON MONDAY AND WENT TO EHR HOUSE AND OMGMGMGKDHGIDHSDJ\FESDHJFDMSKS IT WAS AMAZING AND AND IVE MISSED HER SO MUCH SHES SO SWEET AND COOL AND AND SHE MISSED??? SHE MISSED ME TOO????!!!!! AND WE'VE BEEN TEXTING LOADS AND AAAAHHH ITS JUST its great. it's SO freaking great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! omg, omg, omg, OMGZZZ!!!!!!

ok.... ok excitement over xD i'm very happy if u can't tell......

im getting in2 more music!!! gotta get rid of em poser allegations >;3 (i'm the only 1 accusing myself of being a poser.... T_T)

UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM YA!!!!!!! a good upd8 for once in a lifetime -w-

Feb 22 2026, 04:08 PM

sunday february 22nd 2026


these issues are mine. i put them on here to get them out in the open, and to not bottle them up. if people read it, they read it. however if you are going to purposefully read what i write just to tell me to keep it to myself, dont. unfriend me, ignore my posts, dont read them. they're not for you, and theyre not about you. i dont mind people knowing my personal business, if anything it helps me to know that at least someone has read what im going through, even if ill never know about it. im coping, and if that bothers you, ignore me because im not going to stop.


in other news! i'm back at college tomorrow. like, totally lame. i haven't done any work all week so i'm having to cram it all in today,,,,,,,, probably not the best idea but in my defence i've been trying!! its not my fault i physically cant do COLLEGE work at HOME! im autistic ok its out of routine or whatever

ummmmmm. yeah idk,, i showered today? that was fun?

Feb 22 2026, 03:09 PM

sunday february 22nd 2026


dear you,

i don't imagine you'll ever receive this letter - if you can even call it that. you were never one to be as nosy as i am, and snooping around on an irrelevant website feels out of character for you. still, i'm saying it anyway.

i think i'm growing to resent us. not you, us. i don't think i know how to have friends, you've said it yourself. i deserve all the pain this is bringing me, that just fact, but it's not fair that you have to get caught in the crossfire. i wish you had other friends to fall back on, an echo chamber to tell you how awful i'm being and to be there for you as you phase yourself away from me.

sure, we talked. i poured out everything that's been hurting. but nothing ever changes, and we're always miserable. whether it be together or alone, the aching never stops, and there's a little voice in the back of my head telling me it's gonna get worse from here on out. as much as i can pretend i'm okay now, i'm just not. you aren't either.

not even just within whatever conflict this is. you're hurting for other reasons. i know your life sucks. i do, and i understand that. i'm genuinely sorry that you're going through shit, and i have been so willing to listen so many times. you just don't trust me, and i get it. i mean, i don't get it. but it is what it is.

even so, is it selfish to wish you'd worry about me? i'm barely alive. every day for the past few years has felt like a blur. it's getting so difficult to feel, and everything hurts all the time. i'm so close to the brink of death, and you don't care. you only care when i tell you to care, when i beg you to show me any kind of interest. 

all i want is a little bit of concern. or, the opposite. tell me you don't care and leave me to rot, but don't give me the aching silence that i've heard all too many times in the span of my life.

of all the people, you're supposed to care about me. and as many times as you can say, "of course i care??" when i ask if you really do, it won't change the fact that actions speak louder than words.

maybe i wasn't cut out for this world. maybe neither of us were. but we're still here, and we kind of have to cope. i'm sorry i didn't realise i was becoming best friends with a stone wall, and i'm sorry you didn't realise you were becoming best friends with a hurricane. we might be better off without each other, but for the sake of the past and the future that we can have if i suck this up, i'll stay. i just hope that you will too.


best friends forever,

finnley.

Mar 11 2026, 11:03 AM

wednesday march 11th 2026


i'm evil. yeah, i'll say it. i can never tell if you actually care but the distance from you is weird. i think the worst part is i know it'll last longer, and i'm not gonna do anything about it. remember when you'd tell me how worried you were that we'd grow distant after school ended? and i reassured you every time, saying that that could never happen. not when we were as close as we were, and we had bonded over so much. how was i supposed to know things would turn out like this? i didn't lie to you, i never did. i never thought that i'd be forced to pull myself away, and the guilt eats me alive each and every time the universe forces me to see your face, if only for a minute or two. 

i wonder what your family thinks. i know you're close, or at least, closer with them than i'll ever be with mine. do they hate me? do they tell you all the horrible little things they thought about me, yet kept to themselves at the time, just to make you feel better?

"she was ugly anyways, you can do better than that. she was obnoxious and loud, you'll find someone with more manners. truth be told, i always hated her hair, and her clothes, and her voice, and her face, and her personality. maybe it's for the best that she's gone."

i couldn't say i blame them. they wouldn't be wrong, and if it makes things easier for you, i'd even want them to say that. or am i overestimating how much you even care? do you? at all? what if this is incredibly contradicting to me, yet bliss for you. finally free from the only friend you didn't ever care about. did you only keep me around because i was the only one left? because you had no other options? 

whatever you feel, i guess i'll never know. you aren't like me, and i'm beginning to realise that. you don't post about your feelings, and you never spoke to me about them. it was always thrilling to find out you'd been upset or angry over something i did... days or even weeks after the fact. if at all. maybe this is one of those things i'll just never find out about.

of course i hope that we'll grow close again, that this is just a month-long phase of stupidity and teenage emotion. come on, i write about you so much, it's obvious that i'm still holding on. i miss you every time, but there shouldn't have to be a time to miss you.

life isn't perfect; people argue, and grow distant, and lose one another. but that doesn't have to be permanent. if i got back in touch with someone that i thought hated me for 3 whole years, we can bounce back from this. it just takes time. time that eats me alive with each passing second, but time nonetheless.


...... i don't know what to say about me outside of that situation. isn't everyone depressed nowadays? i'm not special or different, just an attention-seeking autistic freak who thinks too much. 

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Mar 04 2026, 11:12 PM

i miss my gorgeous and groovy husband... sighs... disco bear come home...


disco-bear-disco-bear-htf.gif

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Mar 03 2026, 11:29 PM

tuesday march 3rd 2026


im so fucking sleeeeepyyy man..... and highkey evil?

i'm being a major hypocrite, but taking my mind off of you has been freeing over the last few days. besides, is it really ignoring you if you barely try to keep in touch anyway? i'm not completely blanking you, mainly just taking a step back so i can actually try to be happy. and, boy, have i been happy. bad for us, good for me? i'm assuming you have other people to shift your focus onto. well, i know you do, since that's what you've been doing for the past few weeks. try to play victim if you want, but i truly think it's a team effort of disinterest. and in all honesty, mine only stemmed from yours.


BUT! enough of that! my DVDs come tomorrow, i just took a fat nap, and i miss disco bear from happy tree friends... how did my all time least favourite character become my beautiful fat husband over the span of like... a week? i'm smooching him...

disco-bear-htf-disco-bear.gif

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Mar 01 2026, 10:23 PM

sunday march 1st 2026 (again)


thinking about disco bear and flaky from happy tree friends....... my otp....... thinking about lumpy from happy tree friends.... and toothy..... and flippy......... and petunia......... and lifty and shifty............. I LOVE HAPPY TREE FRIENDSSS I CANT WAIT FOR MY DVDS TO ARRIVEEEEEEEE AAAAAHHHHHH


flaky-htf.gif

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Mar 01 2026, 02:59 PM

sunday march 1st 2026


i know what you do when you stop liking someone. you dont cut them off, you pretend. are you pretending? i'm literally no better than mmt at this point. i think i'm the new him, now that you guys have "stopped talking" (if i even believe that).


anyway, HAPPY TREE FRIENDS!!!! i bought the first 3 happy tree friends dvds and they come between march 3rd-4th!!!! im so freaking excited.....


happy-tree-friends-happy-tree-friends-flaky.gif <---- she's me... i am him...

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Feb 26 2026, 06:28 PM

thursday february 26th 2026


im so ILLLL.....

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Feb 25 2026, 05:53 PM

wednesday february (got it right this time!!!) 25th 2026 (again)


cough, cough... i am sick T^T

i managed to swallow pills!!! you know, um , like the plastic capsules.. ive always rlly struggled to swallow them but i managed to do it 2day!!! im such a pro at illness >:D

i played a little roblox... realised how much it kinda suckz nowadays :/// i miss 2017 roblox... BUT my avatar is still da torchbearer from twenty one pilots!! >:3 da only band in da world... ><

ermmmm erm erm erm i am getting soup 4 dinner heheh annddd i think i mite stay off tmrw and work from home yippee!!!!! 

i hope evry1 on dis website has a very good day actually NO!!! a good FOREVER especially my goat murdererinflorence... ;D

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Feb 25 2026, 05:04 PM

wednesday january 25th 2026


LIFE! IS!... BETTER!!!!!!!!!!

so i broke up with my ex best friend in 2023 right? march 2023 right? AND I LVOE HER SO MUCH OK AND AND AND WE'RE BACK IN TOUCH!!!!!!!!! i texted her saying how cool she is and long story short WE MET UP ON MONDAY AND WENT TO EHR HOUSE AND OMGMGMGKDHGIDHSDJ\FESDHJFDMSKS IT WAS AMAZING AND AND IVE MISSED HER SO MUCH SHES SO SWEET AND COOL AND AND SHE MISSED??? SHE MISSED ME TOO????!!!!! AND WE'VE BEEN TEXTING LOADS AND AAAAHHH ITS JUST its great. it's SO freaking great!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! omg, omg, omg, OMGZZZ!!!!!!

ok.... ok excitement over xD i'm very happy if u can't tell......

im getting in2 more music!!! gotta get rid of em poser allegations >;3 (i'm the only 1 accusing myself of being a poser.... T_T)

UMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM YA!!!!!!! a good upd8 for once in a lifetime -w-

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Feb 22 2026, 04:08 PM

sunday february 22nd 2026


these issues are mine. i put them on here to get them out in the open, and to not bottle them up. if people read it, they read it. however if you are going to purposefully read what i write just to tell me to keep it to myself, dont. unfriend me, ignore my posts, dont read them. they're not for you, and theyre not about you. i dont mind people knowing my personal business, if anything it helps me to know that at least someone has read what im going through, even if ill never know about it. im coping, and if that bothers you, ignore me because im not going to stop.


in other news! i'm back at college tomorrow. like, totally lame. i haven't done any work all week so i'm having to cram it all in today,,,,,,,, probably not the best idea but in my defence i've been trying!! its not my fault i physically cant do COLLEGE work at HOME! im autistic ok its out of routine or whatever

ummmmmm. yeah idk,, i showered today? that was fun?

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Feb 22 2026, 03:09 PM

sunday february 22nd 2026


dear you,

i don't imagine you'll ever receive this letter - if you can even call it that. you were never one to be as nosy as i am, and snooping around on an irrelevant website feels out of character for you. still, i'm saying it anyway.

i think i'm growing to resent us. not you, us. i don't think i know how to have friends, you've said it yourself. i deserve all the pain this is bringing me, that just fact, but it's not fair that you have to get caught in the crossfire. i wish you had other friends to fall back on, an echo chamber to tell you how awful i'm being and to be there for you as you phase yourself away from me.

sure, we talked. i poured out everything that's been hurting. but nothing ever changes, and we're always miserable. whether it be together or alone, the aching never stops, and there's a little voice in the back of my head telling me it's gonna get worse from here on out. as much as i can pretend i'm okay now, i'm just not. you aren't either.

not even just within whatever conflict this is. you're hurting for other reasons. i know your life sucks. i do, and i understand that. i'm genuinely sorry that you're going through shit, and i have been so willing to listen so many times. you just don't trust me, and i get it. i mean, i don't get it. but it is what it is.

even so, is it selfish to wish you'd worry about me? i'm barely alive. every day for the past few years has felt like a blur. it's getting so difficult to feel, and everything hurts all the time. i'm so close to the brink of death, and you don't care. you only care when i tell you to care, when i beg you to show me any kind of interest. 

all i want is a little bit of concern. or, the opposite. tell me you don't care and leave me to rot, but don't give me the aching silence that i've heard all too many times in the span of my life.

of all the people, you're supposed to care about me. and as many times as you can say, "of course i care??" when i ask if you really do, it won't change the fact that actions speak louder than words.

maybe i wasn't cut out for this world. maybe neither of us were. but we're still here, and we kind of have to cope. i'm sorry i didn't realise i was becoming best friends with a stone wall, and i'm sorry you didn't realise you were becoming best friends with a hurricane. we might be better off without each other, but for the sake of the past and the future that we can have if i suck this up, i'll stay. i just hope that you will too.


best friends forever,

finnley.

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