Anyway, you say you’re too busy saving everybody else to save yourself and you don’t want no help. Oh well. That’s a story to tell It’s Called: Freefall, by Rainbow Kitten Surprise
Neokandi The Fanged
21 / Nonbinary / Tipperary, Ireland
Bisexual / In a Relationship
Member since:
Jan 29, 2021
Last online:
Jan 27, 2026
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About Me
I'm Kandi, all pronouns (don't be weird about it, I block queerphobes on sight). Artist, skateboarder, underground band enthusiast, DIY lover, Yu Gi Oh player, socialist, eclectic celtic wiccan. Ask me about the Ireland's Iron Age!
God Dethroned, Korn, Malevolence, Cannibal Corpse, Goreshit, Blood Incantation, Bolt Thrower, Kittie, Mortiferum, Nightwish, Suicide Silence, Nine Inch Nails, Entombed, Sisters of Mercy, Carcass, Bloodywood, Wolves in the Throne Room, Crypta, 1349, Municipal Waste, Enslaved.
I went to alternative karaoke for new year's eve, they didn't have my song so I had to pick a different one on the spot. I made a bold choice and did Y'all Want a Single by Korn, and I got up on the stage thinking "oh god I can't sing this" and then I did and everyone thought it was awesome, I kept getting strangers coming up to me afterwards to give me compliments. One guy was like "That was your backup song?!" and I was like "Haha yeah, that was my first time singing it!" and he said "Oh so you KNOW you're hot shit!" and I thought yeah, you know what, I am hot shit. :3 and I'm still riding the high of that today. What a great start to the year.
haven't been on here in ages but I'm back to avoid doom scrolling after US election results... but let's not talk about that. send me a message if you feel like it. :3
I don't normally post about this stuff but this has to be THE most unhinged message I've ever received ever.
Why do people do this? Has this ever worked on anyone? Has anyone ever been like "Ooh yes blank profile, I'd love that <3" like why even bother sending these, no one's gonna respond positively. I went to block them and the account was already deleted too. XD
I just had an unpleasant conversation on here where they were like "ugh why'd you add me when you don't know me" bro you are on the adding random people website??? and then they had to go and be transphobic to me. Like is it just me? I get random friend requests all the time. I've sent out a bunch of random friend requests before with no issue. Like that's kinda just what you do on here, sending a friend request is like an invitation to talk to you. Why are you on here if not to interact with random people?
Does anyone know any good MP3 players? I love my ipod but I just had a huge drama with no chargers working for it unless I bought them directly from apple, so I'd like to switch maybe.
Hey, if any of you have tumblr or deviantart it would be super cool if you could give my art some attention, I really need it to get commissions. Thanks, really appreciate it.
I hate how no one talks about how advice like "you have to love yourself before others can love you" or "you need to be completely independent emotionally before you can have friends" really is. I keep seeing this type of thing being spread as like, empowering healthy advice your therapist would give you for becoming the best version of yourself, and my mentally ill brain has grabbed hold of it and used it as fuel for self harm. because it's framed as a positive thing I can isolate myself to hurt myself and easily justify it with stupid advice like this. we're social animals, we're not supposed to be able to function without a support system. hating yourself doesn't make you unlovable. you deserve friends no matter what. and yet, even though I know all this, I still can't stop hurting myself because this advice is literally never criticised and held up as like, the ultimate way to be happy by so many people. I've never seen anyone else talk about how bad this mindset can be.