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DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830

Apr 24 2011, 01:56 PM

Omg, that's awful *hugs* Well one thing I think I should point out, we're all here for you if you need it :) But you shouldn't blame yourself, you really shouldn't, if somebody decides to end their life, there's not much you can do to change their mind, all you can is remind them how much you love them and just hope to God that they decide not to go through with it. Your friends clearly aren't good friends. I wholeheartedly suggest finding new friends. I guess I'm lucky in that I have supportive friends, so trust me, it's worth finding them, and if your friends react like that to such bad news... I just find that quite disgusting tbh. You say you're a failure, and although I don't know you well, I would bet that you're not. Very few people who think they're failures actually are. You haven't been dealt the best hand in life, so you feel like a failure because you blame yourself for everything bad that's happened. But it's not your fault! And you most certainly do not deserve what's happened to you. It's natural to not know how to cope with it, and I would suggest asking your adoptive parents for some form of counselling. Unfortunately, I don't know how the system for this works outside of the UK, so I can't give you much help on how to get it, but I think it would benefit you. However, I'm here if you want to talk further, and I'm sure a lot of people here would feel the same way *hugs*

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Halloweenonchristmas
Posts: 268

Apr 24 2011, 07:08 PM

Oh my god im so sorry *huggles* I'm really not good at pep talks and/ or comforting. just know that us guys at soemo are here for you any time you need it:)

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xEvilEmox
Posts: 264

Apr 25 2011, 03:43 AM

I'm so sorry to hear that *hugs* Can't say the I blame her, I myself have thought so many times of doing it, but didn't have the guts! I understand exactly how you feel. This sounds so much like my life, (except that people in my life don't die, they just betray me then disappear or walk away...) I just what you to know that you're not alone in this and that it's not too late to make things work the way you want it to, even if it's gonna take the hard way.

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dark-side-risenx
Posts: 493

Apr 25 2011, 06:58 AM

Sorry for your loss. :(

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JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
Posts: 1222

Apr 26 2011, 05:41 PM

Don't ever believe that this is your fault! U don't deserve any of this! It breaks my heart to hear this. People were wrong to say those things about your sister... You needed someone to talk to. But that's why everyone on this site is here... you can always talk to us. Don't give up on your life. In the end, everything will work its way out. That may not be what you want to hear, but I believe it is true. I know you're angry and frustrated and grieving... I'm terribly sorry. I wish I could fix everything for you. *big hugs* You can get through this, I promise. Just hang in there. We're here for you

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