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okay guess i will start this :) i honestly prefer to be single now. At first I was like i am going to be sad forever until I took a stand and tried out something new (stay single). So, now I am okay with it ^_^. The reason is simple....it actually gives you more time for you without worrying about anything. I am comfortable with it since its been 4 years yes, but, not saying I want to stay single forever just saying that its okay and there is nothing wrong with that :D Hopefully someday that right person will come.

^You're amazing, nezzy. I am single right now. But there's this guy that I'm interested in and I'm going to ask him out in a few more days. Hopefully that goes well. Being single is fun because you can make decisions only for yourself. No worries about what anyone else thinks. And you have so much freedom. Lol. But I prefer having a relationship. Because there's just something great about having someone to snuggle with, to hold hands with, to get piggyback rides from or to hug/kiss. Two is just better than one (in my opinion) :D

i guess...im now single..today i just broke up with my boyfriend and now my world is crashing down...i don`t think being single is that bad but..it`s lonely...i wish i could`ve been with him more...he was such a jerk...f*cking cheater....

Well im single...my boyfriend dumped me a couple of hours ago. But I prefere to be single, 'coz the past couple of guys I've dated have just wanted one thing and I prefere hanging out with my friends than a boyfriend :3

i have been Single for a while, and even thats an understatement XD but you sorta get used to it, its not all that bad :) it's like you have got life's extendable dog collar on, and it gives you the freedom to run around, and to sniff the odd twig, and mark your territory XD but in a relationship, you have the standard restricted collar, which is okay but occasionally pulls hard around the throat and chokes you ;) x

I'm always single. i'd like to have that relationship experience.

I don't know. Right now, I just want to stay single and go on dates with a few people. I don't feel like being tied down to anyone But sometimes, I really miss being in a good relationship :(

I am in a relationship with the most wonderful boy in the world ^_^ Hehe I love him sooo much <3

I would rather be in a relationship im single but being to crazy about either is bad for your health!

^^^^^ agreed. The healthiest is being content no matter where you're at :)

^ yea I like that reply a lot ^^

awsome!

Well given the fact ive been single my whole life and can't seem to attain one, i guess i do not have the right stuff ha, so i would like to experience one soon.

I'm single and I like freedom.. :)However,I like time when i'm in relationship with somebody.. x) Just now I prefer "single" and freedom like a bird :)yeah that is reason why i'm single x)

Single & hating it, I'm afraid. :/

Relationship... My world is a crashing fireball without someone to love..The one girl im so deeply in love with romeo and juliet would go DAMN THATS ALOT OF LOVE lol :P But were 500 miles apart, i cant drive yet, idk if it would be smart to tell my mom..i just dont know what to do :(

I am now in a relationship and I've never been happier :D He's perfect :)

i am now in a relationship!!<33 he's so perfect for me and he's sweet !<3

in a relationship <3 but well being singles has its good way of life too :] x

Well I have borderline personality disorder and with it comes abandonment issues. So I try to stay not single lol. However, the BPD also causes partners to run away fast they just can't seem to tolerate my moods :/. So for me, single is not good, I'm one of those people who has to have a boyfriend or girlfriend cos I feel I can't cope on my own, I don't even like leaving the house on my own cos I feel awful anxious,jumpy and paranoid and my mind just stops working so I end up looking really stupid. I hate the fact I have to rely on someone else so I fully understand how difficult it is for people to put up with me. At the same time, When I'm in a relationship, I'm always happy at first, but then when the honeymoon period wears off and things just get into a comfortable routine I get pissed cos I still like to make an effort and partners seem to just back off and stop making an effort, which makes me very unsatisfied so I tend to then look at other people, I wouldn't cheat but I can't help finding other people attractive when my relationships get too predictable, It's something I feel guilty about :/ I'm now in my longest relationship, been together for 14 months, and been engaged for 9 months. I'm happy with him but I do resent the fact he has become too comfortable and now it's me making all the effort and me cooking,cleaning and paying for EVERYTHING (we live together), also the fact he's a mummy's boy and his mum hates me does cause problems. But I deffo prefer to be in a relationship.