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Not to be mean. Because i used to be the same. Diet

Ive tried ive lowered portions tried weight watchers and I'm still overweight

for some reason it dieting doesn't like me and its not mean

Just because you are overweight doesn't mean you're ugly. I am overweight as well and I thought that way for years but have now generally accepted it. Nobody likes being overweight but it doesn't make you ugly if you are. And as cheesy as it sounds- what makes people ugly or pretty/handsome is what's on the inside. Girls generally want to be skinny because then guy's (or girls) are physically attracted to them, but if they can't see through a little bit of extra weight then they don't deserve you. I know how you feel as I'm sure most people do, but you should want to lose weight for yourself not because you think other girls are prettier than you. You should want to lose weight to be healthier. There are always going to be people out there who you think are prettier, and in reality yeah they look good but they probably have the worst personalities ever. Now that that's out of the way things I suggest are drink a lot of water, eat a lot of vegetables, and be active. And if nothing works then nothing works. Either way you are beautiful. Just have confidance in yourself. And I know you probably won't listen to what I just said, but I know for me I was the same way. People would tell me that and I didn't believe it, but one day after finally being told that enough I believed it. Anyway, take care and I hope you do realise that you are just as beautiful as those other girls. (And you don't have to be skinny to be emo just because some emo girls are skinny...I think most people here would agree. emo is more of a personality/lifestyle trait while weight is more of a physical trait)

^{Couldn't have said it better, ninja.}^ Darling, God made who you are today&he did that for a reason. How will you inspire people if you can't inspire yourself? How can people look up to you as their rolemodel & think; "Wow, she's so amazing. I wish I was like her, I wish I could accept my weight&diet but not stab myself for not losing a ton of weight suddenly. I'm going to be just like her, because she's such an inspiring person."? You are BEAUTIFUL & nothing anybody can say will ever change that. You have such a great personality & that's the thing that makes you so stunning. Weight is just a number you see on the scales. Are you going to believe the lying red line pointing to that number or are you going to believe in yourself? I know how it feels, I really do. Wishing you were something that your not. I suffered from Anorexia for 5months because I wanted to be like all those amazing emo girls you find on Google. But the thing is, Google only shows you the outside of them girls. 99.9% of them are selfish, cocky, bitches who think they're so amazing. Yes, their beautiful but the only thing that they give to other people is either sex or hurt feelings. Brookelle Bones is one of them 1% that are skinny, caring&help-forwarding. She was just made that way, the same way you were made. And tbh, half them fakes on Google are edited to have bigger tits&smaller waist lines. But your 100% real&that's what makes you so special. We all love you for who you are, not of what you look like. I have the most chubbiest face ever but I'm probably the happiest person you know, that's how I inspire people. So, it's your decision right here, right now. Are you going to be the one to inspire or the one that sits away wishing she was a fake, skinny Google girl? Because I know that we'd all pick that funny, BEAUTIFUL, amazing, bubbly, inspiring girl over anything <3. That's who you are but you just haven't seen the true colors of your aura,♥' Your amazing, never forget that.

Wow…thanks that truly makes me feel better about myself :) thanks guys ^.^

I do agree with them... but if you do feel uncomfortable with your weight all I can say is diet, exercise, and drinking LOTS of water (you'd be surprised how much of your weight is just from not drinking enough water) By the way, you are absolutely gorgeous so don't worry too much <33

WOW I was looking at ur pic and thinking you was gorgeous! Wish I looked like you. But I guess all of us (or at least most of us) have "flaws" which we're not happy about. I, for instance have an over-bite and buck teeth, and I'm always feeling self-conscious and ugly as it isn't something which is conventionally attractive. But there isn't really anything I can do about it so I just try to accept it. If you're concerned about you're weight then there are, as other users said, things you can do to fix that. Just remember that real beauty comes from within- which sounds a bit cheesy, I know!- and that people are always more attracted to a good personality than they are to "pretty" faces. You are beautiful in and out!

Great answers above and I can certainly say you don't seem to be ugly!! If people are bothered about their weight with enough motivation, advice and the right methods you really can lose it. I know girls who got bullied about their weight, but have lost 2-4 stone (check Google if you work in pounds to convert this) .

Well I get called fat by literally everyone and I hate my reflection but thanks I appreciate that compliment :)

^ You shouldn't hate your reflection! You're gorgeous!!! If you want to lose weight try eating more often, but in small amounts ( don't eat large meals); avoid going to sleep directly after you eat ( give yourself three hours to digest) and take everyone else's advice. Exercise- do interval training. If you don't like running you can do interval training while walking too. Interval training is the best way to lose weight! If you want more info on interval training inbox me. Please don't do these exercises simply to "look better" do them because you care about your body and want to make sure it's healthy. There are big boned women who are very healthy and look very beautiful!! But all in all to me it won't make much of a difference; you'll still be gorgeous!

what are you talking about girl?! lol you ARE beautiful in your own special way! ^_- oh and people who call you mean names and say your fat are a bunch of freaking low-life losers.

Aaaw thanks guys I appreciate it ^.^ I do like to run its just its always too hot or too cold to run but I do try as much as I can

I agree especially with Stephen... I'm one of those girls that's big boned... I have the BIGGEST hip bones ever, but people also say that my hips are one of my best qualities... embrase your flaws girl(:

Believe me I try all the time to find the good things.about my flaws its just......hard

When it comes to feeling not as pretth as the other girls I feel exactly the same. I feel so plain compared to them! Just remember no one is ugly at all. Any girl who says they have never felt slightly insecure about anything to do with their appearance, no matter how small it is, they're lying. We all worry about how we look it's human nature. You are human aren't you? XD I often get upset when my friends point out my weight. I am naturally skinny it runs in the family, but sometimes they make me feel bad (they don't mean to, I'm just sensitive) when they're like "Oh my God you eat so much and don't exercise but you're still skinny! You're too skinny!" It's as though they're angry at me or something. :/ But seriously you are so pretty! Don't let anyone ever tell you you're ugly or fat. Those who do need to wash their tongues cause they are talking shit.

Aaaw thanks and I find the beauty in my flaws sometimes I have a lot of breakage in my hair and I think its really pretty sometimes but no I'm an alien haahaa just kidding

Just remember, Haters make you famous(:

hahaha love it nikki

Haahaa yes, yes they do ^.^