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RayneCross
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I might have a crush on my friend... Mar 02 2012, 12:17 PM
I can't seem to accept or deny it.. Shes awesome, beautiful, hilarious, and fun to be around.. But when I imagine it, I can't see it... It sounds stupid, but I honestly can't think about wreaking our friendship with a thing like this... I don't know if she's bi or not. I can't bring up the courage to ask her out... Also if the very, VERY, rare chance I ask and she says yes, how could I explain to my mum? She hates me already for me being bi... My mind can't get off this subject, it's bein bugging me for the last few weeks... Can anyone tell me their opinion? It would be great, thanks!

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FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Mar 02 2012, 01:55 PM
I think it's a decision you have to make for yourself. Weigh the pros and cons! To see if your friend is bi...Try to feel her out; as in, ask vauge questions concerning all that kind of stuff. As for your mom... A friend of mine went thru this recently. Mainly, parents have this preconcepted idea of what your life will be like and when something like being bisexual challenges their wishes for you it catches them off guard. They hope its a phase because they want so badly for you to be 'normal' or whatever. Many deal with it after getting used to the idea. It's all about communication! ...I hope this made sense and helped you a little...
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jessypoo
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Mar 04 2012, 11:40 AM
i had the same problem with my best friend. still do. but i up and told her i loved her and i always will. she broke down and cryed telling me she didnt love me like that but i accepted it. you should get the courage to ask her orientation. just be like hey i always wondered but are you straight? and im sure she will be fine with it if she says shes bi then its a plus its a bigger one if shes single. if you want to tell her that you like her more than a friend or wait a few days to do it . the timing is up to you just dont be afraid of opening up. she may be the one and you just dont realize it.

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