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Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Going after people in relationships? May 11 2012, 04:29 PM
What's your view on going after people already in relationships? It might sound harsh to some people, but in certain cases I don't think it's a problem. For example in the past I have got friendly with girls in 'unhappy' relationships and ended up going out with them. If it was clear they were in a happy long-term relationship I certainly wouldn't butt-in though. At the end of the day it's all about going with the flow, being confident and not just thinking "what if" and doing nothing about it...

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Emo Pictures - Emo_Tional_Girl_2013
Emo_Tional_Girl_2013
Posts: 74
May 11 2012, 09:46 PM
It may or may not help that Im kind of one of those who wants to go after someone in a relationship (but thats how all this crap started) but still, if you do, make sure you know what your doing. If not, it will backfire. Theb it WILL become a problem. But if the two are really truly happy, dont be an idiot and butt in. It wouldnt be worth it.
Emo Pictures - Blue-Eyes-Lion
Blue-Eyes-Lion
Posts: 140
May 13 2012, 07:43 AM
Im going to sound like a bitch, probably. If someone is in a relationship and want's to start seeing someone else then there's no point in remaining in that relationship. I don't think there's really anything wrong with breaking up with someone to go out with someone else, especially if you think you'd be happier, and I don't think there's anything wrong with encouraging someone to go out with you instead of their current partner. However, it's when people start lying and deceiving that it becomes wrong.
Emo Pictures - MiowMiow123
MiowMiow123
Posts: 26
Jun 09 2012, 10:21 AM
You have to just follow your heart if someone likes you back but theyre in a relationship its their problem to end it !!
Emo Pictures - DizzyDotRocks
DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Jun 09 2012, 12:16 PM
I've wanted to go after people in relationships so many times, but never have, and personally wouldn't. Even if they were unhappy in that relationship, I'd try not to get involved because I know I'd end up persuading them to leave it, when it should be their decision. Though if they did leave the relationship, I wouldn't waste any time getting into a relationship with them :L This is all purely hypothetical though, I'm not planning on leaving my boyfriend anytime soon :3
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18362
Jun 09 2012, 12:48 PM
What's interesting is meeting people that you don't know are in a relationship and don't actually think about mentioning it! :D
Emo Pictures - DizzyDotRocks
DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Jun 09 2012, 01:16 PM
^ Oh that would be horrible! I hate it when people cheat!

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