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Emo Pictures - AttackAttacker
AttackAttacker
Posts: 34
In unending pain... Jan 04 2013, 02:31 AM
Forgive me for the length of this. So. I just found out that a childhood friend, who I've been in love with for many years, who I would give all my blood and everything I own for, has a boyfriend. As much as I can be happy for her for finding someone who can make her happy, I can't shake this pain. I am in complete emotional distress, and I cannot stop shaking intensely. I can't eat, work, play in my band, or do anything but lie in bed. She somewhat knows how I feel about her (but not to the full extent!), but when I told her I "had feelings for her" last December, she rejected me (I put a lot of blame on The Westermarck Effect) and I felt the same pain that I do now, only now it's worse because I feel like things can keep getting worse and worse for me. She doesn't know that I know about her boyfriend (who may or may not be a secret). I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know what I should say! Confess the full extent of my love? Tell her I have no issues? All I want is for things to change, to be with her. But things aren't looking up for me. I wish there was some way, somehow, to change her mind. But I can't, and I don't want to complicate her relationship with her boyfriend by throwing my intense emotions into the mix. Advice? Comments? Anything? If not, I thank you for taking the time to read this anyway. -AttackAttacker EDIT: Part of the reason I feel like this is because I have issues with clinical depression. Just some background info.

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-FiFi-
Posts: 212
Jan 04 2013, 04:39 AM
Not going to lie... I do think you may be slightly over reacting. yes it hurts knowing someone you liked for a good while is with someone else but it's the fact... if you've like her for a good many years why didn't you say something before? And i assume she just doesn't like you in that way, yes it hurts but it's just not to be for the time being... you won't get everything you want in this world... besides they'll be someone else who will show up at some point, i'm certain. Also don't go to her about your feeling now silly! XD it'll just make her feel bad for not being with you and it may end up messing with her mind, it just wouldn't be nice for her.... I know for a fact it isn't XD All I say is you need to calm down and move on... you're dwelling way.. too much and it does need to stop..
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Jan 04 2013, 10:08 AM
I agree that you may be overreacting. As hard as it may sound: she is not your whole life. She rejected you. She doesn't like you that way. My suggestion is is to give her space; For your sake and hers. You so you don't get more upset and potentially ruin your relationship with her. It sucks, I know, and it will be difficult. I Wish you the best of luck.

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