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Every girl likes to think that guys do nothing but cheat, lie, hide things, etc. Which, is kind of true, but there's a reason. Most guys who lie or hide things do it because they're scared to tell you the truth because they are scared of losing you. The other douche bags do it because..well..they're douche bags. Now, the guys who cheat usually cheat because there is a conflict between their physical and emotional desires. It may be you, it may be him. But that's where communication comes into play. And sometimes communication is a problem with guys(this is where your "hot and then cold" part comes into play). Guys like to think that they don't need to "talk it out"..but deep down, they regret not talking it out. When it comes to emotions, guys aren't typically all "So, this is how I feel.." they like to bottle it up inside. And the closer you become with that guy, the more likely you'll get to see that side of him. So, pretty much, guys seem stubborn because they don't flaunt their feelings like girls do. It's not "manly". All in all, us girls will never understand how a guy truly thinks/feels because all guys are different. So how do they fall in love? The same way girls do, except a little more discreet. They find someone they're attracted to, they talk, and either they like you or they don't. Sometimes guys "like" a girl only because of the way she looks. Sometimes guys go for the personality. Sometimes, they're just desperate! Ultimately, love is love. It's not different for a guy or a girl. It's still a feeling that is felt by the heart, mind, and soul. Guys, just have a very hard time showing it.

I agree with above ( well said ) I've a lot of mates who are guys and it's noticeable that they often feel under pressure to act in certain ways around girls E.G. in front of other mates as they often feel the need to be seen as 'manly' and always want to seem that they've 'won' when competing at things and this often results in them being/acting stubborn and rather awkward at times giving the impression of hot and cold... I think part of it just comes down to nature, so the lack of ability to show certain emotions or express there feelings easily (like women can due to men's lesser ability to nurture and empathise with things) and the other is society's fault of pushing certain stereo types such as the lies and cheating which in turn produces some right twats out there As for love i guess it's differs for every guy like it dose for every girl ,so personality ,appearance ,interests etc It's a case of just asking the guys straight up why they are acting the way they are and not accepting a cut off or blunt answers in response hope this helps

falling in love just happens to me, the feeling just comes to you and its the same with a girl or a guy. I feel some guys can be a little stubborn and whatnot like people have said above but then girls/woman can be exactly the same.. i know i bottle my feelings up sometimes for i don't want anyone to start worrying or whatnot. I mean yeah men with others around may act differently to act manly.. but then there's some woman who still get themselves done up whenever they go out to get some attention. In my eyes, girls and boys are all the same in every way just in slightly different ways, such as men wanting to be 'manly' and girls wanting 'attention'.

As a guy, I agree with all three previous answers. It is theoretically all the same mannerisms that a female will abide to. I'm a single person, but even with my friends I hate talking about my feelings and anxieties, so that's more proof that girls are more open to 'flaunt' feelings :) But we may not like to admit it when we do, but we fall in love exactly as girls do :)

well here is my situation. Me and this guy were kinda seeing each other but not. the problem is , im 13 and he is 17. he saidddd thats why he wont ask me out, but i didnt really believe it. anyone love is love like u said. he always complemented me told me i was beautiful gooodmorning text calling me a princess, etc. he said himself we were just a like and i know it wasnt just me. at least i thought. we spoke for about a month, and i couldnt stop myself from falling for him and out of no where he called me told me to never contact him again. and i never have. i deleted him from fb. sooo about 3 weeks later he adds me back. and im the one who deleted him and he added me.so i deleteed him again a few days ago bc i couldnt take it. any advice

if he adds you again send him a polite message asking why he keeps adding you when he didn't want to speak to you and take things from his response i dont think there is alot else you can do tbh unless your happy with continuously blocking and reporting him

the reason i deleted him again is because one is hurt to see his name all the time and two i wanted to see if he would add me again.

^ guya douches!! well if I ever have a sex cange I will lt you no honestly why they are like they are!! :P xx