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hiding_in_the_dark
Posts: 312

Dec 14 2013, 12:50 PM

I have the same problem with my 'friends' I just don't like them. I sit at my own table now and I just don't want any interaction with them. My mom always wants me to be perfect and some sort of girly princess. EW!

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-FiFi-
Posts: 212

Dec 14 2013, 02:42 PM

maybe try and not dwell so much upon the past and everything that's bad... maybe just focus on yourself and get good grade in school would be a good start for you are really the only thing stopping you getting good grades.. i mean yes events can hinder you but in the end its all done to you to work at it and improve them :) And maybe try meeting up with some of the people you hang with in school and try and form a friendship... it seems to me that your not even trying to form friendships with these people on the lone thing that they don't understand. No one will ever understand for they are not you... maybe its just time to move on from things. You still have many years in front of you.. so make the most of things while you can.. years fly by and you don't want to spend your time thinking about things that have been and gone, even if its hard to accept and move on from :)

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llwolfll
Posts: 183

Dec 15 2013, 07:17 AM

Try and talk to your mum about it, try and get to understand that's your young and you need freedom because how else would you learn. Tell her that you don't want to be her "possession" and that your happy the way you are. If that's fails then the only other option would be to move out, Maybe stay with another family member or auntie or friend, or you could even tell your school and they may be able to help in some way Hope that helps a little :) goodluck

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xXabaNdoNedGaMeXx
Posts: 32

Dec 15 2013, 10:23 AM

i've tried to talk to my mum but she doesn't get that i'm serious, she thinks i'm over exaggerating. she pretty much hates who i am when i first started dressing the way i dress, i could see the tears in her eyes. but i have no other family and i still love my mum so i dont want to leave her on her own, and i know it could be worse. There is pretty much no point of me trying to make friends cos all the girls in my school hate me. they arre nice to my face but they talk all kinds of shit behind my back. i know cos i hear it from my 'friend'.

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llwolfll
Posts: 183

Dec 15 2013, 12:28 PM

well on the mum part my only advice really is to try and keep talking to her calmly about it and hopefully she will understand and for the friend part thats school for you tbh dont worry about friends in school because once you leave and go on to college you'll meet some great ones ;) and tbh school these days most kids are horrible

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PeeweeWolf
Posts: 2

Dec 18 2013, 10:22 PM

I'm so sorry about everything :( It's so hard to find friends these days! :/ The people in my city are either rich, snobby kids or gangster, sick, twisted teens. But anyway, just know that God is there for you and that things will get better whether by time or new circumstances. Sometimes there are huge roadblocks in life that are there for us to overcome to make us stronger. :) I'll be praying for you and I hope things get better! You can always PM me too :)

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SimplyNemo
Posts: 6

Jan 04 2014, 01:55 AM

why do you even call them "friends" ? just call them strangers, as they are, and leave it. find real friends somewhere else... about your mother... i have the same thingie with my father. but he came to somehow accept that i am kinda boyish sometimes, but, honestly, even when i dress like a girl i feel ... weird.. so.. welcome to my world :3 meow

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