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RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Self harm Dec 14 2010, 12:49 PM
Well yeh i do. all the time am i alone ? x

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Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 19 2011, 09:43 PM
Tonight... is one of those nights, though I know I'm not going to do anything
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 20 2011, 07:53 AM
I have 6 baldes in the back of my phone case...
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 20 2011, 07:37 PM
oh well have you tried doing the oposite of that???
Emo Pictures - xXMessedUpXx
xXMessedUpXx
Posts: 149
Jul 21 2011, 11:27 AM
Is there anyone you trust who knows about the SH and who you could give your blades to? That way they'd be 1)out of sight so not as easy to use and 2)you could have someone to talk to if you get the urges? That said if i'm in that state of mind i'll use whatever i can find :(
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 21 2011, 04:46 PM
^yeah true and good idea
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 22 2011, 01:14 PM
The thing is i'd still find something to cut with ive smashed a mirror before to get a sharp edge =/ Some people know ive cut but they dont knwo that it is a big issue in my life. To be completely honest with myself i think SH could be the thing that kills me i just cant see myself controlling it pr getitng help and stopping
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18338
Jul 22 2011, 02:38 PM
I suggest talking to friends and dedicated self harm professionals on site such as: www.thesite.org/healthandwellbeing/mentalhealth/selfharm
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 22 2011, 10:26 PM
That or maybe talking to your parents, I know they might be kind of upset at first but it can really help
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 23 2011, 12:57 AM
I cant me and my mum just dont talk about anything and i dont want her knwoing about this she would be so extreme about it
Emo Pictures - JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
Posts: 1222
Jul 23 2011, 02:20 PM
A couple days ago I popped my rubberband on my arm so bad that I still have a mark. That was... Wednesday, I do believe
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 24 2011, 01:15 PM
I hit myself really hard the other day to get a bruise but its just not the same =/
Emo Pictures - nikkiwest
nikkiwest
Posts: 2440
Jul 24 2011, 04:10 PM
Ri-Ri that's what you need, you need somebody who's going to be extreme with you... someone who's going to do wrist checks daily, take you to the hospital (which from what I heard can be fun as long as your not there for longer than a month)
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 25 2011, 01:45 AM
I just wouldnt be able to cope with that, i cant cope with life right now to be perfectly honest.
Raerae
Posts: 41
Jul 25 2011, 12:45 PM
Hiya, I just wanted to let people know that Self-Harm is something that you can beat. I've been there and I know it seems like it's not something you're ever going to leave behind. But you can do it. It takes time and a lot of strength but it's worth it in the end. I haven't self-harmed for over two years and I don't think I ever will again. If you live in the UK, I recommend ChildLine if you ever want to talk to someone. Hope this helps. :) x
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Jul 25 2011, 01:51 PM
^ well done you =] Yehh i was clean for around 5 months or so but then obviously when my dad died i resorted to the only thing i knew. Im not going to feel sorry for myself people have it alot harder than i do but i must say i havent had it as easy as others i think its just my safety net i like to know i can do it if i need to.
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Aug 04 2011, 05:56 AM
Bam!!! I had such a bad urge to cut last night and i was so close but i didnt ! :']] i feel so proud ahah i might sound big headed sorry about that ! :']
Emo Pictures - DizzyDotRocks
DizzyDotRocks
Posts: 830
Aug 04 2011, 01:08 PM
Well done Riri!!! :D
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Aug 04 2011, 01:15 PM
Thankyouuu! Im actually so happy i didnt im a step closer to getting over this ! ^-^
Emo Pictures - BreezyBelonephobia
BreezyBelonephobia
Posts: 67
Aug 04 2011, 08:51 PM
i've been cutting on and off for 3 years now
RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152
Aug 05 2011, 01:56 AM
ihgirnifrenifberujb AGHHH I failed :'[[ I cut last night only 2 little ones but still >.< Wow 3 years is quite long but im coming up to 5 years of cutting its no fun D:

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