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xxBlakexxBobcatxx
Posts: 142

Confidence Nov 26 2011, 07:27 AM

Does anyone else have problems with confidence? I'm working on mine...I don't know. It's tough. Any suggestions?

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NotWithoutAFight
Posts: 355

Nov 26 2011, 01:31 PM

I used to when i was younger, but now since i improved playing guitar and got into bands and performed live loads its improved so much, so that kinda thing helps, just going out and socialising with people is another good way too.

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nezzyneon
Posts: 896

Nov 26 2011, 04:02 PM

i honestly have to say that the best way to be confident is to know what you are good at and start from there. :) Like uniqueness about yourself that no one else has ...it can be anything!

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JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
Posts: 1222

Nov 26 2011, 04:48 PM

Yeah! Listen to Nezzy :D

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18346

Nov 27 2011, 09:59 AM

A long time ago I did a bit. Now I don't and just go with the flow and don't give a sh1t :D

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OnyxAngel
Posts: 833

Nov 27 2011, 11:43 AM

It's hard to be confident when you're used to people putting you down. But just hold your head up and smile. Don't just go with the flow xD Be original.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18346

Nov 28 2011, 04:20 PM

When I say go with the flow I mean taking risks and just not worrying too much about what other people think. It's your life...

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OnyxAngel
Posts: 833

Nov 28 2011, 04:49 PM

^Oh, okay xD Then, I agree with Matty :]

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carwreckblonde
Posts: 12

Nov 29 2011, 02:51 PM

how i found my confidence was realising as long as your happy the way you are , then fuck the rest of the people who are only trying to make themselves feel better, trust me stick with what you know and ditch the things that dent your confidence! hope it goes well (:

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OnyxAngel
Posts: 833

Nov 30 2011, 01:26 PM

^Agreed :) Btw, your poem was beautiful :D

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carwreckblonde
Posts: 12

Nov 30 2011, 04:17 PM

haha thank you (:!

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xxBlakexxBobcatxx
Posts: 142

Dec 05 2011, 01:57 PM

OK guys, I see. I see. I think I know what you guys are sayin! XD I guess the whole reason why I never liked myself was because guys never liked me. But now that I've found my own style and everything, I don't know. It just seems like I can make it through it now. You guys rock! You know that right?

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18346

Dec 05 2011, 03:45 PM

Yea we all rock!!

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7253

Dec 18 2011, 12:45 AM

^agreed! and yeah who doesnt have confidence issues from time to time lol its apart of life..noone is perfect but well just being around people who really loves u helps a lot if u feel not that confident ^.^ i dont give a fuck much about what people thinks of me since i am really stubborn then i do things my way or i just ignore people that bothers me by listening to music kinda loud with my headphones on my cellphone :) x

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xToxic_Pandax
Posts: 78

Dec 19 2011, 04:49 AM

I have some confidence problems. I'm just working on them, and one day I'm sure I will like myself. :3 And I agree with Karin. EVERYONE has them sometimes, even if it's only tiny. People who say they have none at all are just lying in my opinion. One day, it will all be better. X

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Dec 19 2011, 01:41 PM

I have like no confidence in myself >.< I get like random rushes of, yeah you know what fuck everyone else I can do it! Whatever it is :P But then it just goes back to screw it..your a loser, :( Especially awful cause I like this girl and i reallllllly want to talk to her but I'm just...ughh..I'm sure plenty of people here know what I mean by Ughhh :/

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Deleted User

Dec 23 2011, 03:37 PM

So guys.. you wont be emo forver, will you?? you know why that is? because all this is is a phase. You want to feel apart of something that can psychologically acknowledge your way of being i "independant". Truth is characterising yourself to a stereotype doesnt make you an individual. It makes you an idiot, be who you are and stop with the depression bullshit. you're lucky to live in a 21st centuary western country where you dont die of starvation! so shut the hell up! and move on from this phase.

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Dec 23 2011, 05:07 PM

Really? Your going to be a prick and post in most our topics just because you can huh? Matt, go to Please Read.. in the introductions thing, and ban all those 3 people. Its the same person just being a fucking douchebag and ban his accounts, or something. Fucking little pricks, need to learn to leave other people alone.

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ohsolo
Posts: 115

Dec 25 2011, 02:11 PM

dear wake up I wouldnt normally be baited by a jerk like you but yes youve pulled my chain too f*****g hard , I wish I could just say that you are someone arsing around but life tells me that there are really people about in the world who think like you. Taht is the reason we are in the shit state we are all over the world. wars, famine, genocide, loss of freedoms. All that because of A*SEHOLEs like you. Crawl back under your homely little stone and wither.

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