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xXBrokenHeartedBoyXx
Posts: 8
I get treated like a freak in public... Aug 19 2012, 03:44 PM
Every single time I go out somewhere, to a mall, into the city, for a walk I always have people looking at me. Staring at me directly and blatantly, either that or they turn away and laugh. Argh, so rude. Does anyone else ever experience this?

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Emo Pictures - Kamikazeke
Kamikazeke
Posts: 78
Aug 19 2012, 03:53 PM
Don't worry deary, you aren't alone. I live in a town full of Marines and military families, so everybody is expected to be "proper" and "normal". Then someone like me strolls on base with pink hair and a fox tail pinned to my butt. Needless to say I've raised a few eyebrows. Just hold your head high and be proud of who you are. I've noticed that most of the people who react to me in a negative way are either super old or just jealous that they aren't comfortable enough with themselves to express their style the way that I do. I've had so many people come up to me and say "I really love your style, but I would never be brave enough to do it myself!" Jealousy really explains a lot of it. They conform and try to fit in with a more "normal" style so that society will accept them. Whereas people such as us don't give a flying fuck about what society thinks and we just do what makes us happy. So don't dwell on it too much, and definitely don't let it get you down. You should be proud that you are being true to yourself. :]
Emo Pictures - Raven_95
Raven_95
Posts: 23
Aug 20 2012, 01:07 AM
It's the same where i live, i seem to be the only person into alternative music, and i dress differently. So everyone is the same with me as tehy are with you
nobody_cares
Posts: 253
Aug 20 2012, 01:56 AM
Don't let it get you down! They're just jealous that you have the guts to express yourself.
GAMBIT
Posts: 1
Aug 20 2012, 06:03 AM
i do too everyday, i get called names, stared at and talked about but those people dont have a life if all they can do is hate
xXBrokenHeartedBoyXx
Posts: 8
Aug 20 2012, 08:12 AM
Thanks. You're so right I won't care as much from now on XD
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Aug 20 2012, 09:03 AM
Yea I get stared at and have the occasional stupid comment, but F*ck them they are only jealous of my awesomeness ha.
Emo Pictures - xSUICIDEBLOODx
xSUICIDEBLOODx
Posts: 7255
Aug 20 2012, 09:45 AM
^I second that aha :D but about myself :P x
Emo Pictures - hellokittykiller
hellokittykiller
Posts: 1
Aug 20 2012, 08:14 PM
i do to it kinda sucks but look at them back and give them a look they give you if they laugh damn find someone who looks like you if ur friends there look and roll your eyes and laugh it make them stuned
FlamingBlackSkull
Posts: 464
Aug 20 2012, 10:43 PM
Yeah, it's mostly jealousy. I get loads of positive comments on the way I dress, but there will always be a few jerkoffs that try to make you feel bad. Don't. Being a spectacle is so much more fun than fitting in! :)
FiFiTheVampBitcxh
Posts: 243
Aug 21 2012, 05:28 AM
i think most of us do... people do that to anyone who they find is different or whatever
FlickerOfHope
Posts: 189
Aug 22 2012, 04:55 AM
Mate I cop this every single day at school!! at home it happens, pretty much everywhere I go!
Emo Pictures - Nathantheninja
Nathantheninja
Posts: 1
Aug 23 2012, 02:59 PM
This happens to me all the time. I think of it as getting more attention than a normal person. I don't mind it I guess. I wouldn't want to be a boring normal person anyways, I like to stand out.
Deleted User
Aug 23 2012, 03:51 PM
This happens to me all the time:( I dont really mind it though. It gets annoying once in awhile, but I just ignore it. Well "try" to...Im like super quiet, im a complete anti-social loner, and people dont really like the way i dress and the music i listen to and stuff...So alot of people look at me or treat me strange...
xxxemogirl_lonnerxx
Posts: 23
Sep 15 2012, 12:49 PM
me. and dont worry your not the only one. what i do is i just walk with my music and my head phones. my music is my life
zenia101
Posts: 219
Sep 15 2012, 07:55 PM
it's true no matter where u go there is always someone there to put in thier 2 cents wether or not u ask for it, i have a hard time dealing with it too. but sometimes u just have to say fuck u and walk on. just think of it as they can't stand it that u can be differnt and be ok with it and they can't it drives them crazy so they have to figure out a way to deal with it and they take it out on you.
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LifeHasStarted
Posts: 42
Sep 25 2012, 05:42 AM
all the time, get heckled as well. But you get over it. I just ignore it and don't let it bother me.
genocideguy
Posts: 10
Oct 15 2012, 10:16 AM
Don't get caught up in staring or people laughing, for all you know they're laughing at something completely unrelated. As far as staring, some people just stare and don't realize it. even if they do stare like your a freak, who cares. If you like colored hair, tattoos, piercings, etc people are always going to judge, but fuck em
Emo Pictures - Falling_In_Hate
Falling_In_Hate
Posts: 9
Oct 16 2012, 02:00 PM
I constantly get shit like this. My favourite was a guy in a tracksuit shouting "emos belong in the 90's faggot" from a moving car window. Ignore the close minded assholes and be proud of who you are.

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