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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Heartbroken? </3 Jun 29 2008, 02:19 PM

Have you been truely heartbroken before? If so how did you deal with it and how long did it take to move on?

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TehCrazyBrit
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Oct 19 2009, 05:44 PM

I know how that feels. I was going out with this girl for four months, her friends hated me and were slowly making her choose between me and them. Me being the amazingly nice guy I am broke up with her so she didn't lose her friends, two days later I'd realised I'd just made the biggest mistake of my life, period. I beg and pleaded, I brought lillies(Her favourite flower)and chocolate, got onto my knees in the middle of town and begged her to give me another chance. She told me she wasn't ready for a relationship and we could be friends, then I found out she has a facebook account, guessed her password and that's when the truth started spilling out. Now just over two weeks on from the break up she's with another guy, I had to find out myself through her facebook because she just kept lying to me, makes me feel like a stalker tbh but I just want the truth. I used to have amazing control over my temper, but right now I just want to hit her new boyfriend however I'm scared to because I have my Dad's temper and that's got him sent to prison God knows how many times. I don't think I'd stop hitting him if I started. Yeah, I'm not really coping with my heartbreak.

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Oct 21 2009, 11:10 AM

^ I bet that situation is fairly common. Hopefully you will deal with it and move on to someone more trustworthy.

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TehCrazyBrit
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Oct 21 2009, 01:42 PM

Dealing with it is pretty easy, moving on is the part I'll have trouble with seeing as I wasn't exactly confident as it was and this has just destroyed the little bit I actually had.

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Nick-Aotmzgin
Posts: 1004

Oct 26 2009, 03:46 AM

in the name of lettuce no! hehe i am a true person i usually try to keep relationships! - nutrition . :) or atleast i try true romentical person! (sometimes)

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MandyMortified
Posts: 53

Jul 27 2011, 06:25 PM

Yes i have been heartbroken, and sadly im still trying to find enough bandaids to keep my heart together.

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nikkiwest
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Jul 30 2011, 03:06 PM

Hmm last summer I had a summer romance with my best friend Adam, all though we were only dating for a maximum of two weeks of that, he was the only guy to ever break up with me, and I cried myself to sleep before dinner, and after I woke up and ate I went and looked at his facebook and cried some more.... our "romance" had its flickers throughout the school year and I'm still having trouble getting over him...

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JojoCupcakeKillerrxD
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Aug 02 2011, 08:38 PM

Oh godd... Sometime later I'll post the whole story It's just too much for me to bother with atm

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JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266

Aug 02 2011, 09:31 PM

Yesterday. Today. Not completely of course, I'm not an emotionless bastard..Its just that I didn't expect it to work, so its not a big deal.

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xRoseFallx
Posts: 176

Aug 03 2011, 05:36 AM

I have :/ Its a long story And to be honest i didnt really cope... i pretty much went insane and cut off all my emotions.. thats the worst way of coping ever though i try to vent my emotions differently rather then cutting now.. for example poetry or art or music... it helps <3

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soul_eater_Chrona
Posts: 91

Aug 10 2011, 09:41 PM

Yeah, ive been heartbroken...a month or so ago, i was Dating a guy named Don, and he (i thought) was really sweet and kind. but some things that happened made us start drifting apart, it wasnt when he dumped me that left me heartbroken, it was when i found out he was keeping a calender from days 1-31 (a month exactly) that hed date me for, then when that month was up he was gonna dump me...i felt like a gutterfuck, i mean he kept track of the exact ammount of days we'd go out for. i pretended like it didnt hurt me, and he stayed with me for another 2 and a half months, but i got over him when he broke up with me, cuz i was realising that im better off with a guy who will love me timelessly.

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TheBleedingDream
Posts: 101

Aug 11 2011, 03:47 AM

my past 3 girlfriends all said i had the same problem i am too sweet whether it was their problems or mine i never know but in a relationship despite me putting my problems aside i always end up getting dumped ... whenever a girl breaks up with me i always strive to make sure its my fault ... why because like any normal human i dont want to cause any girl more pain then she deserves so naturally ive been more heartbroken then most but im sure perhaps one day i will find what im looking for whether its my self or a woman i don't know but im sure when the times right ill smile knowing it took me this long to find the girl of my dreams

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Aug 11 2011, 08:45 AM

my ex as many surely know abused me and since that well i am really aware and on my guard against guys because of that....! i will never ever let myself get hurt again like that..x

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RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152

Aug 11 2011, 10:32 AM

Once and it took me about a year to get over it and really i only started getting out there again but we all have to go through heartbreak to notice and appreciate when the right 'one' comes along and true love happens i guess =]

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Aug 11 2011, 10:38 AM

^agreed! x

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xXeMoRaCeRXx
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Aug 14 2011, 01:16 PM

This is all very sad :( I haven't been heartbroken for ages, but I bet I will be in the future...

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xSUICIDEBLOODx
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Aug 17 2011, 12:13 AM

no matter how heartbroken u r then everything will eventually get better ...(: ! x

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RiRi-Rawwwrr
Posts: 2152

Aug 17 2011, 02:17 PM

heartbreak probably one of the worst pains but when in love the pain is all worth it

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